What kind of life you want?

@maean_19 (4655)
Philippines
February 4, 2009 4:20am CST
Assuming that you are given the chance to choose the kind of life you want, how would it be and why? Would you still choose the kind of life you have now? Share to me your opinion and to everyone here who would be able to read and share theirs. As for me, I still choose the kind of life I have. There may be regrets and mistakes that happened, yet I want them to leave that way because those happenings are learning experiences. Come on, tell me yours....Would you want changes in your life?
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36 responses
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
I really think that what life we have right now is bound to happen. And given a chance to live again and to pick what life I want, I'd still pick what my life now, just a little need of fixing on some potholes and detours of life and I'll be all fine. I have asked this several times, so I guess I already know what to answer. Living the limelight, and with the upperclass or the elites is definitely a good experience, but how come others who are actually in that position, don't like it? And the average and poor would think like that person is stup*d, she has or he has everything! Whatelse does she/he likes??! If we have everything in this world, I don't think it would be senseless and no life, it will be boring and no directions. We don't have our goals of what we want, because we already have it. No more challenge to test on. At least, if we don't have the life of stardome or the life we want, we can strive of getting of something we madly like. Well, that's my point of view, maybe living life like Paris Hilton or the other Royalties are great, but do you think they are totally happy with that? I'm pretty sure they what something different in their life. Afterall, no matter what status you have in your life, it will never be easy to live by..
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
7 Feb 09
That is how uncontented people are. The rich desires to have simpler life, the poor wishes to be on top. Whatever life you choose, it is up to you to mold it and build it. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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@daddyfree (122)
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
the kind of life that i would want is the kind of life that i have now. Have a loving wife and beautiful kids(a boy and a girl). I just want to be more successful and travel around the world and have our own house and lot and carS....
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
5 Feb 09
Well, that is something you have to wish for and work about. It is possible to happen anyway. Thanks for responding.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
4 Feb 09
I strongly believe in the fact that grass is greener on the other side and I would choose this life only inspite of all the hurts and pains it has given me. I have learned from the mistakes and become stronger and happier. I want re live the past though in a better way to look at things, in a better way to face the life and be happy with it.
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
16 Feb 09
Everyone wishes and desires to have a better and happy life. You can make it happen. Thanks for sharing....
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@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
I do want more time to play the piano and to do some computer programming and stuff like that. I would still want to grow things. Cheers!!
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
Go for it, do what you think you are happy to do.
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@roberten (3128)
• United States
4 Feb 09
I do not know if I would change my life, after all, my life experiences have shaped the person I am today. I guess I would change the people I chose to marry. I would also change my confidence level from childhood. I would choose to have more common sense too. I would choose to have my parents with me longer and to have listened to them more carefully. I would choose to be a kinder person who was much less judgmental and more understanding with the patience of Job. If I changed anything about my past it would be mostly about me being a better person than I am today.
• United States
5 Feb 09
This is a great answer. We should all be like you, striving to become better people, kinder and more understanding. Kudos!
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@pickwick (858)
• India
4 Feb 09
No , i will never choose the life I have now.Things which I have done in the past has made me pay heavily for it.Its too late to rectify things.First of all I will start with a change in career if i could.I think that itself will bring a great change in my life.
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
16 Feb 09
I think it isn't late yet. If you want something, go for it. I can see that you are still young and you still have the time to choose the career you want. Good Luck!
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• China
5 Feb 09
If possible ,I 'd like to choose another kind of life,because there are many businesses that I have not done.For example ,I have not enough time to stay with my parents.But because of work ,I have to stay far away from my home.I know it is impossible to change what have happened.Therefore, I 'd rather to set up new goals than just regret what has been past.
@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
5 Feb 09
A well_off life,I suppose.I hope the main reason I work is not for money.I wish I could have enough time and money to develop my interest,such as visiting places of interests around the world.Another thought on my mind is to be an popular actor or a talented director,shotting movies all over the world.
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@greyzppc (111)
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
I could choose a life, I will choose a life not the life I have now. I am so sad with my life now.
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
5 Feb 09
Why are you sad? Can you share it with us, if you don't mind?
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• United States
6 Feb 09
Where I don't have to go to some job for a boss, I'll be able to spend as much time with my loved ones as I desire.
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• China
5 Feb 09
If i have a opportunity to choose a kind of life for living,i wish i can born again.And then,i will play heartily during my childhood,i will study hard for getting knowledge and skills when juvenile.My dream is to become a lawyer.But in fact,i am not.
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@jzybabes (286)
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
if i have given the chance to choose what kind of life that i want to,.. perhaps,i want my life now,i'm contented because i have my children and my family ...there's no regrets!... i have many experienced came into my life... if there's a changes come in to it...then that would be a great blessings!
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
It is very nice sharing your thoughts. Thanks. Happy mylotting always!
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@Tinna_He (300)
• China
5 Feb 09
Because my hubby and i live together with my parents-in-low.i hope we can have our own house.Though my mother-in-low are cooking for us,i still hope i can cook by myself.when i am in kitchen,i don't know which things can be thrown.my mother-in-low may hope to keep it all the time.To us,we may like sleeping and don't want wake up early on weekend.After we had late breakfast,my mother-in-low would complain.i can accept for once,twice.But i can't endure all the times.But our money is not enough to buy a house.
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• United States
8 Feb 09
I am very happy with my life and the people in it, if I could change anything to choose it would be to have less bills...LOL, seriously we live pretty frugal and had to learn the hard way with credit cards and how bad they are for our credit... as it is we have not had credit cards for the last 10 years... so that in itself was a learning experience and we are rebuilding our credit. I was happy with my job choices, and I absolutely love being a full time mom now, since I worked all of my 20's and then started my family when I turned 31... so I am happy with our choices, just would like to get a bigger house soon!! thats what I would change....as the house we picked out 4 yrs ago was perfect for us, but now we have another child...LOL --and outgrowing this one fast.
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@mioney (2)
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
well,, i'm contented with what i have right now .. i believe evry thing that happed to me has a reason and it just a resemblances for what i'am now,, without that experience i will not be brave as i'am now,, but if i will leave again.. i want to be a superstar whom bf is ben affleck then chad michael murray,, then i will help those who are in need especially,, so i can help for a no financial crisis,, very hapi world,, world peace
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• Philippines
5 Feb 09
I want to choose the life I have now. I have a good family, good health and good disposition. . . But I would also like to experience the life of Hillary Clinton. . .hehehe. . How she coped with Bill's infidelity.LOL
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• China
4 Feb 09
If this chance offer to me ,i want to do whatever i like doing in my life,like reading my favorated book but not for make preparation for exam ,i want my life pure and simple ?I have no need to worry about the complexed relationships ,job ,study ,future and so on .Life goes on in my hands , i can determine my destiney ,and try all the means to enrich my life !
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@itsmine (104)
• United States
5 Feb 09
I want to get peaceful life. It should be occupied with full of happiness(Just expectation).
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@jyesha (105)
• Philippines
5 Feb 09
If a have a chance to choose the kind of life, well i am contented with what's life I have now, because I am happy leaving with my family.
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@annah2 (29)
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
If ever that I am given a chance to choose the kind of life I want to become a princess or a very rich woman But also I like that the people around me like my family is still there.I want to share to them all the good things that is happening to me!!
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