how to handle the cold war with your best friend?
February 4, 2009 11:16pm CST
Once i had a cold war with my roommate in the university.i didn't remember why we started.we didn't talk with each other for two days.we didn't go to classroom and restaurant together.Both of us are like strangers.Until i went back the bedroom and only she stayed at the bedroom.(we had four classmates staying in one bedroom)i didn't say anything except seeing her doing.when she saw the sight of my eyes,she called my name.Can you guess what is happened next?LOL.we hugged together and cried loudly.when we stopped crying,we were laughing.I still remember that scene.we are still best friends. how about you?how to handle the cold war with your best friend?
5 Feb 09
OMG the same thing happened to me in college. She was my best friend ever since high school. Suddenly, she just started avoiding me and never talking to me. I didn't know what happened, or if I did something or what. We stopped talking for 6 months and I still didn't know what's going on with her. Then Christmas came, we just hugged each other during our Christmas Party and laugh our hearts out and everything was back to normal, But until now I still don't know her reason for ignoring that time. We still communicate with each other, but I haven't seen her for years.
5 Feb 09
..you did the right thing.. nothing is impossible when you use good conversation.. This is the most effective way to overcome your anger.. In a relationship even in friendship or marriage, there will aways be arguments and misunderstandings but that is normal. It is the reality of life.. That's why it is also good to be forgiving.. That way, you could have a clear conscience.
5 Feb 09
It is said that having one sincere friend in life is sufficient.No matter how long was the cold war,we are still best friends.we know each other.Communication is also most importance.If we can communicte with each other,we will not have the cold war.If i have some unpleasure or dissatisfation,i will tell her directly.The same as marriage,i will let my hubby know what do i think.