when you lose a friend

United States
February 5, 2009 8:02am CST
I had a friend who is bipolar and well we at one point were good friends i thought until she changed and started telling people my business and well i forgave her and still she did it again and again and well i am done dealing with it. her husband is a thief and a liar and she is constantly telling me how she wants to leave him and yet she won't and i can't handle it anymore. I haven't spoken with her in over two months. i am sure that her husband had something to do with her not speaking to me and well i hate that guy he tried to befriend me but i learned that he can not be trusted and that he manipulates and lies. She would be better off with out him and yet she is so dependent on him it is unreal. I wish her the best of luck question is what if she wanted to be friends again should i go ahead and be her friend? She wasn't a good friend to me when we were friends. I don't know she is a ok person but she is influenced very easily.
3 responses
@Shavkat (62401)
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
I guess she is not fit to have friends who are not so patient to understand her. If she has this bipolar, then this is really an influence of her mental state. For me, I will be still her friend, due to her condition.
• United States
11 Mar 09
Only you can decide. As for myself, I choose friends who respect me, have similar values, and who make me feel good about myself. If you can't trust someone, why would you want them in your life?
@alamzaib (1287)
• Pakistan
5 Feb 09
i cried. got over it. remember the good times. smile at her in the halls. got new friends.