Women asking men to marry them

United States
February 5, 2009 11:32pm CST
My boyfriend asked me to marry him when we first started our relationship. I said yes. We went through our ups and downs. Now we're back togeher. Is it ok if I ask for his hand in marriage?
4 responses
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
Yes, it is possible..yet, to be practical,INDIRECT APPROACH I think is more effective. I mean, you can ask him by using or stating some jokes on it and observe how he will react on the conversation.If he answers positively then GO girl!!Good luck
@annierose (17254)
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
hi kanesha1028, Well, as for me it is alright. Nothing is wrong with that.I think when both parties really love each other, it doesn't matter who will do the proposal.Before, here in Philippines, men are the one asking their girlfriends to marry them. But nothing is permanent, all things changes even cultures. In fact, women and men are equal now.We just have to be open minded. Nothing is wrong if you tell him what you feels.It is much better to be open to one another just keeping that thing within yourself. I have also my boyfriend now and I can say that letting him know always what goes on in your mind will make the relationship goes better and stronger. On that way, both of you will know each other. It is one good thing that you and him knows each color's as early as you can. If you want to say it, then go for it.I can say that you will be relieve afterwards.I had proven it many times with myself and the result is good.You and your partner must not keep secrets and must trust each other to have a strong relationship.Happy mylotting
@nengs10 (3189)
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
I don't see no problem with that. I guess for open-minded people like me, it's never a problem. That's very cool actually. That's just ok. Don't think of the reactions of the people around. If my wife would do that to me, I would definitely laugh at first and cry because of awe.
@Tinna_He (300)
• China
6 Feb 09
why not?If you love him,you can ask for his hand in marriage.Though my hubby and i married because of our baby.our life is happy.life has its ups and downs.But i trust love can solve all questions.Hope you can get your happiess soonest.Best wishes.