Who should make the first step?

France
February 8, 2009 8:26am CST
From my own experience, I can say that when a girl want a man, she won't hide it really when I see a lot of men being turned down after being flirting in a silly way. So, according to me, the man should wait to get some hints from the woman and then show it back. Whay do you think?
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@writersedge (22579)
• United States
8 Feb 09
It works for me! But in some societies, people would think badly of a woman if she isn't careful.
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• France
8 Feb 09
I find it kinda hypocrit for them coz hidden or not, women controls everything to me! Men without women are nothing.
@writersedge (22579)
• United States
8 Feb 09
That's not how those societies work and not how they think, but I agree with you!
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@writersedge (22579)
• United States
11 Feb 09
Thank you for best response, I appreciate it! Take care and Happy MYlotting!
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@winterose (39921)
• Canada
9 Feb 09
traditionally the man makes the first move, what if the man never finds a girl that flits, does that mean he stays alone the rest of his life?
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• France
9 Feb 09
Absolutely, The world has a lot of examples of it!
@gr8life (6253)
• Malaysia
8 Feb 09
Hello Cannonball, I think it doesn't matter who should make the first step. But, I still believe most prefer the man to make the first step. In my case, it was me who made the very first step
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• France
8 Feb 09
When both parts want it, that's nice.
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• India
8 Feb 09
Boys should take first step if they get hints from girl and see gil too shy to propose. if boy has very strong feelings then he should thee it no matter what the consequences
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• France
8 Feb 09
In my case, I would have to consider what's in the lady's head first.