Fed up with my life!
February 9, 2009 2:53am CST
In my own house, i am being treated like a stranger. My parents and my two brothers are illiterate. Only i have studied till high school. I have a smaller brother who is in standard 5. When i was in his age, there was no one to help em in my studies, but yet i did what i wanted to do. But today, when i am helping my small brother to improve him in his studies, my parents told me that i don't know anything and that i am disturbing him. And when i shout at him to study, they says that i am beating him. And whenever i tell them about something that is goog for them, they behave strangely and use foul language. Are they jealous of me? Or they can't see me succeeding in life? The same case for my two brothers. Both are cleaners at hotel and only me i work in office. I have never done anything wrong to them, but why are they behaving like that?
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9 Feb 09
Hi Atish I understand ,how you are feeling now,and sometime it feels that whatever right we try to do ,it appears wrong to others. What i suggest you to do is that dont get angry with others,even if they feel that you are doing wrong,continue doing things with love to them,its very difficult to do such a thing ,but dont worry some or the other day your family will see the goodness in you and in due course of time they will respect you . Also analyse what might be hurting them,maybe its some other problem they have or in some way you may be hursting them without your knowledge . All in all.... thats how life is ...we are all human beings and everyone makes mistake ,dont thinking about getting fed up in life,,,, do little good things in life and will definitely reward you in the future. All the Best Vishwas
9 Feb 09
HI Atish,as far as I am concerned, you should find a good time to talk with your family to distinguish what bothers them,is't about jealous all other things.try to do what you think is right even then can not understand you right now,they will know your godness someday.don't get fed up with life,it's really tough and boring sometimes but you have to cope with it
9 Feb 09
maybe you should try to express your feelings to your family. open communication will help you know why they are treating you that way. and i feel your sentiments atish, i know it is hard for you answer all your questions. but we all know that there is God who can help us in finding the right answers.