what is first thing you notice in a guy/girl?

@agrim94 (3805)
India
February 9, 2009 8:49am CST
I am a guy and definitely notice when ever i am introduced to a girl.. The first thing i notice is if the girl can smile or not. Smile to me is most beautiful gift god has given to us humans. A smile can be infectious ie it might make others smile seeing someone smile .. then i notice her eyes and is she well behaved and well dressed. What do u notice first thing in guy/girl?
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@regal_aeros (2605)
• Singapore
9 Feb 09
I would say the entire out-look of the guy. I might sound very "face value" but hey, first impression counts a great deal. So the first thing i would notice, is how the guy carries himself. Is he confident or is he a slacker.
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
9 Feb 09
so confidence is first thing you notice in a guy but confidence comes with success so it might mean u might loose a good guy because he is not yet successful.
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@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
9 Feb 09
I notice a guy's eyes first. Do they sparkle or not?? I can get lost in the eyes. There are so many colors there. The eyes also tell you if the person is truthful or not.
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
9 Feb 09
eyes are window to a persons brain and yes u can see cunningness in the eyes of a person. Eyes rarely lie. But as far as colour goes well in our race we dont have many colour eyes most people have either black or brown.
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• United States
9 Feb 09
If you look closely at brown eyes, you will see flecks of green and blue and even yellow. There are a lot of colors that blend together to give the appearance of brown. It is fascinating.
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@wheel416 (1019)
• Canada
9 Feb 09
Hi there Royal, You stole my response so I will just add my 2¢ worth to your response. As has already been said in this thread "The eyes are the window to the soul" and I certainly believe this to be true. A person's mouth or voice can lie, but their eyes cannot. Just look into a person's eyes if you want to know the truth… A person's smile, it is definitely the second thing I will probably notice about them or I guess alternatively the lack of a smile. A person's sense of humor is also a very important part of a person's personality. I guess those are my top three. Happy Mylotting!
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@dropofrain (1167)
• India
10 Feb 09
The first thing that I observe in a girl/boy is the face. The first thing that is visible in the person is his face and this is what reflects the overall personality of a person.
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
10 Feb 09
Face.. so if a man is over all handsome it gives a nice impression.. no doubt i agree it.
@lhenax15 (117)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
As for me, i usually notice the overall appearance of a guy or a girl, if he/she is neat and carry him/herself well. Next is the face, if it bright or dark, or if he/she is smiling or frowning. :D
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
10 Feb 09
yes a man should look elegant and well mannered..
• United States
9 Feb 09
The first thing I notice is their eyes...are they kind? arrogant? Then I notice how they act...do they act like they are the king of the world? are they kind and respectful? do they act like a womanizer? Then I notice their apppearance...do they take care of themselves...brush wash clean clothes etc. then i notice their personality, are they kind? are they mean? are they arrogant? are they narcissistic? do they put others first? do they laugh and smile? do they treat people with contempt? Then when i get to know them i try to notice how they treat others when no one is looking...that is the most important. How they act when they think no one is watching
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
10 Feb 09
wow thats lots of things you do notice in a man.. r u sure u can get any guy who is good in all these.. womanizer.. well all guys are given opportunity and secrecy they would womanize..there is no doubt about it.
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• United States
10 Feb 09
oh no womanizer is not a good thing...if i notice that i run in the opposite direction say am if they are arrogant, narcissistic, contemptious and so on
@Mamakavi (63)
• Kenya
10 Feb 09
The first thing I notice about a guy is his shoes!
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
10 Feb 09
:) so if i come in Gucci Shoes do u think i would be attractive:)
• Kenya
10 Feb 09
He he he he! No Shoes say a lot about a person. You could wear Gucci, but their dusty. That says something about you :-)
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
10 Feb 09
i will have to say is the eyes and smile and after that come the personality. will notice how they carry them self.
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
10 Feb 09
so ur eye lover too.. well eye lovers clearly win over smile lovers 10 to 1:)
@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
9 Feb 09
the very first thing that i notice to women are they're eyes, smiles can fake their true intention, but once you see what their eyes tell you then you will practically know more about her. like an old saying "the eyes is the window to the soul" and i believe that...and it proven me to a lot of circumstances already in life and that includes meeting women. a perfect smile that is plastered on a woman's lip also attracts me a lot.
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
9 Feb 09
yes eyes are very beautiful thing and tells u what person is thinking... smile makes world go round i believe.
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
10 Feb 09
Eyes do it for me; they are definitely the windows of the soul! I agree that a smile is very important too. I do notice grooming etc... but sometimes it just a certain "something" an energy, if you like that emanates from a person that can make them very attractive. A guy does not have to extremely good looking in the traditional sense to exude this certain energy. That is the best way I can describe it. It's energy meets energy and there you have a very magical chemical reaction!
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
10 Feb 09
:) so a positive energy.. like something pulling you to him and ur not able to pin point what it is:) yes it can be start of something great.
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• Egypt
10 Feb 09
Unlike most people what draws my attention first to a guy is his general Ora, the way he stands and hold himself.
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
10 Feb 09
yes how he carries himself is a real good thing to note... aura is very important.
@HansonFan (1653)
• United States
9 Feb 09
I also notice the smile first, immediately followed by the eyes. I believe my eyes are my best asset, even though they are hidden behind my glasses. Once I get to know him I focus more on personality and sense of humor - I love to laugh!
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
10 Feb 09
so ur like me too... and i am sure ur eyes are very beautiful.. and u need to hide them behind glasses. Sense of humour is must and anyone who cant laugh on himself has no sense of humour.
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@Obsidian (70)
10 Feb 09
The first thing I will notice is his/her eyes. Eyes can show their's real mind. If my first face to a guy, the second thing i notice is their cloth style. It is important a man wear in good sense of cloth, like simple and clean. If girls ,i would like to see if her manners, such as standing position.
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
10 Feb 09
So u like over all personality of a guy or girl.. thats nice.
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• Philippines
9 Feb 09
i think its the nose, heheh!
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
10 Feb 09
:) yes no one like a running nose..it is such a put off
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@bubbletush (1332)
• Philippines
13 Feb 09
the first thing i notice are the eyes. i'm attracted to chinky eyed men. then the nose.
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
13 Feb 09
whats chinky eyes.. is it like japs or chinese?
• India
10 Feb 09
yes i too notice their eyes and smile it shows there beautify...... first attraction is very nice in girls point of u .......... i like medium color but attractive face with good character for future wife ......
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
10 Feb 09
thats nice santosh i hope u get wife just as u described.
@manunulat (604)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
Eyes first then nose down to lips... Now does that sound cheesy? ;)
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
10 Feb 09
U stopped at lips and didnt go down below neck so it is ok :) ..
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
10 Feb 09
I think the first thing I notice in a guy is how they talk. Some people just swear once they open their mouth. I like some sounds an educated person and polite.
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
13 Feb 09
right a man should know to talk ..i dont like rude and offensive persons
• Philippines
13 Feb 09
the first thing i notice in a guy is his face ha ha ha, then of course his voice
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
13 Feb 09
:) so he is be supersexy and super attractive.
• China
10 Feb 09
I will notice his behavior and manner.From that i can judge him whether is my type or the person i take shine to
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
13 Feb 09
yes the man should be gentleman
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
I notice her action if she is nice,kind,good or bad.because of its action I will know if what in inside her heart.also I will notice what she said.because if will show also what is her feeling and what her in mind..
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
10 Feb 09
Well to know if she is kind or not u would need to know her a lot but i asked what would u notice first ... but if ur looking for a long term relationship then heart is the most important thing.