my son's dad abandoned us for eight months

@unchie (122)
Philippines
February 9, 2009 10:38am CST
my son's dad just left us without saying any. We're bf/gf for 3 years and we have a son. We're not living together but he used to visit us everyday. I tried to text and call him but he didnt answer back.I was really worried that time wondering what happened to him.After couple of months i heard rumors that he already have gf.Then 8 months later he came back then ask me to marry him. He still don't explain why he leave us. I love him so much. but i doubt if i will accept his proposal.
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3 responses
@goldeneagle (6776)
• United States
9 Feb 09
He obviously doesn't care for you or the kid, or he would not have stayed gone for eight months with no contact, and he would certainly not have a problem telling you WHY he did it if he really loved you. Take some advice here and send him packing. If you survived without him for eight months, you don't need the bum. Move on with your life and find someone to treat you right...
@unchie (122)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
yeah i guess i am better of without him..but i still want a closure and really want to know what happened..Thanks ^_^
• United States
11 Feb 09
It doesn't matter what happened darlin'. The bottom line is that he ran off and left you for eight months, and he will more than likely do it again. The only closure you need is closing the door when you kick him to the curb...
@jshekhar (1563)
• India
9 Feb 09
Hello Friend! I may sound harsh but all I have to say is that how can you trust a person who left you like that for 8 months? He might have been ditched by his other girlfriend and then he came back to you. Why did not he respond to your calls or text messages? Things are clear dear. You need to move on in your life. Value your self respect. Do not let yourself be taken for granted. There is every chance that he will abandon you again and come back an year later. What would you do then?
@unchie (122)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
yeah your right.. But i still want to hear from him whats his reason..thanks^_^
@dmrone (751)
• United States
9 Feb 09
How can you love someone who just up and leaves you and your child?