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As many of you know by now I've been through a cascade of terrible events... Recently I was in court to protect my grandmother from the abuse of my step mother... I thought I made posts upon this fact at least revealing to some degree enough of the details to make clear of the current set of circumstances that are pulling at my heart strings. It turns out that my step mother set out to capture my father not for love but for my grandmother's estate. My step mother then convinced my father to commit suicide, why do I say this? Simple, if you go to your family doctor and they send you to a specialist who recommends that you go to a cancer treatment center, are you following? Okay, you go to the specialist and you do not go to the cancer treatment center instead you blow out your brains. Ah! But here is the tricky part, was my father convinced to blow out his brains or was this done by his own conviction... Gun Play; Back to the issue about, guns, my father, and his threat to commit suicide. He told me while teaching me to hunt that the gun is a weapon that can be used for survival or to take a life, he told me that if he ever became a burden he would end his own life. In December of 07 my father committed suicide using the pistol that my mother pointed both at the home wrecker the woman to become my step mother. My mother found out where she lived and drove to her house. Then later my mother pointed the gun at my father down stairs in the kitchen. I heard the commotion and was as usual told to go back upstairs. My father later told me that my mother was trying to shoot him. He could see that the safety was on and waited to see my mother actually commit to pulling the trigger before taking the pistol off of her. She would have shot him and it was that very same pistol that he used to take his own life. Then there was the gun that was put to my head by the police when they barged into my house illegally executing a 302 due to the signature of my wife on a document that was totally fabricated. The 302 was the words of my mother written by a crisis intervention nurse and they (my mother and the nurse) convinced my wife to sign the lies by telling my wife that signing the document would prove how my wife loved me. Sure my father had every intention to end his life if he felt that he would be a burden on us the family, (I was estranged, from my father and extended family since 2002, and was not given all of the details about how serious my fathers condition was in fact it was not a serious issue so I was told...) A key issue in my story is who was my contact to my father and my step mother? It was her son, my step brother... Was Brian giving me the straight story? Would Rosie my step mother lie to me? Let's put some dates to events, in October of 2007 I leave my wife, she has turned her back on me by not including me on details of her plans that she had for one Saturday, she just couldn't come out and say what she was doing, I had no idea and was taken by surprise and she wouldn't apologize, she escalated an argument and as a result I had enough and left. About a month later a friend of mine told me his father was diagnosed with cancer of the mouth... I didn't know that the particular cancer that his father had was centered close to his heart. About the same time my father was diagnosed with cancer on his cheek, so I was told by Brian... It was during this time in October of 2007 that my father acquired power of attorney from and for my grandmother. She doesn't remember doing this, she remembers many things but this is red flag that goes up number one... In Early November my father is diagnosed with this cancer on his mouth I was told it was skin cancer, I know that most cancers if caught early can be treated sometimes successfully. Now for the facts that I'm given by Rosie, she tells me that in early November my father was diagnosed with this cancer and he was recommended to a specialist, from there at the end of November my father was to schedule an appointment with a cancer treatment hospital. Instead of going to the cancer center, my father commits suicide. The local police come and take the gun and miss a note left on the back of the order from the specialist to make the appointment at the treatment hospital. The note was simple but I'm not sure it was my father's hand writing, something about the note that my step mother had made me believe that it wasn't real. The note read, "I'm sorry I just can't do this... Signature" Here is the deal, Rosie has this note ten months after the fact, she said that she found it four days after the suicide even she didn't notice it right away, the suicide was early December... Rosie went to the police station late in January to retrieve the hand gun, she never gave the note to the police the police report indicates that there was no suicide note left behind. Why? More details my father died in December, I was told that his heart just stopped, it was 10 months later that I learned that my father committed suicide, why did I learn that then? It was because of my step mother putting my grandmother in a nursing home six months after the suicide... So in June my grandmother was put in a nursing home supposedly for two weeks (a temporary respite) it turned out to be nearly four months all of the summer of 2008... I had asked Brian how my grandmother was doing knowing that my father and my step mother had moved in with my grandmother (In June of 2007)... He led me to believe that my grandmother was living at home the whole time... Brian was a co-worker who while driving his personal vehicle with a faulty Brake Light electrical system from the factory nearly making his new car a lemon (because the factory dealerships could not fix the problem in three tries.) Brian was rear ended by a teenaged or young driver, Brian is now disabled and can not work, and recently went through a divorce just before that accident, along with that he illegally moved into my grandmother’s garage a two care detached garage with a stone floor and no plumbing. While living on my grandmother’s property Brian was paid $1,000 for working around the house by his mother as compensation. I knew Brian needed a place to live and told him that he should talk to me as I have room in my house to help him, I didn't know that Brian was lying to me at the time. Back to the nursing home, it was because Rosie was lying to the nursing home that my grandmothers nephew would be involved in trying to get his aunt moved back home, he knew she had no business being in a nursing home facility... Because the Nephew acted in a legal capacity this triggered my being notified to appear in court. This alerted me to the fact that A.) My father committed suicide and B.) That my grandmother had been, put into a nursing home. Now I had to figure out all of the details reunite with my grandmother thanks to her nephew we were able to be reacquainted and we hit it off great. Rosie didn't like that and told other people that I had become my grandmother’s boyfriend and insisted that my relationship with my grandmother was disgusting. Back to details about the cancer and the suicide; It turns out that four days after the suicide Rosie found the suicide note and she told me how she called the family physician and reamed him out demanding to know what he said to my father to cause him to commit suicide, this is a flaw in her version of events, it is totally illogical, why would she blame the family physician when it was the specialist that gave my father the details of what to expect and the prognosis of a recovery... Here is the big issue my father was using the same family physician that my grandmother uses. So I wanted to talk to the doctor and made an appointment to see him about both the condition of my grandmother and what happened to my father. The doctor’s office scheduled my appointment and then called my grandmother and Rosie in to see my grandmother all of us were there at the same time. Talk about being put on the spot! But I did get a chance to talk to the doctor about my father and he said that he was surprised that my father committed suicide. He thought the cancer was not only treatable but even curable. Something doesn't add up... I visited with my grandmother every day while I knew she was in the nursing home and I tried to make daily visits after work when she was finally released from the nursing home as per the Nephews actions. Rosie however once my grandmother went back to her home, tried to prevent my visits... On occasion I was allowed to take my grandmother out... On one outing I got a release signed and notarized; I find out about the court hearing early to mid September around the 10th and we all go into court for the hearing September 24th 2008. because my step mother has hired a lawyer to petition for guardianship as a result of a challenge by my grandmother’s nephew who challenged Rosie for violating the Power of Attorney (POA)... The first hearing I didn't get too much of an opportunity to speak but I learned a lot... I started putting all of the facts together through the documentation of the police report and talking to the doctors and I got a release from my grandmother to do all of these things, it was a notarized release, the notary thought my grandmother was a former school teacher we had to explain that no she was only a head secretary for a local company... My grandmother’s Birthday is October 31 I made her a walking stick to look like a scepter, for my queen, the matriarch of the family. So the release allowed me access to bank and medical records... I bought the transcript of the first court hearing and on Tuesday November 23 we had another hearing the second one where the judge was to make a ruling on this case, but with my research the judge did not make an immediate ruling. I have been waiting all this time to hea