Missing my father...

@meticulo (1286)
United States
February 10, 2009 11:05pm CST
I just missed my father this early..I lost him last Feb 5, 2009. We buried him yesterday. May his soul rest in peace..
5 responses
• United States
11 Feb 09
I am so sorry for your loss..I know what its like..my mother left us two years ago and it feels like I re-live that day all the time..just know that your dad is in a far better place and is with you during everything you do...
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@meticulo (1286)
• United States
18 Feb 09
Thanks Scarlet! Yes, I can feel that he is just near me always. Are they really present in spirit for us?
• United States
18 Feb 09
Yes they are..my mother left this world two years ago and not only do I feel like she is in my house, but she plays with my baby at night. When people pass away, to me, thats the beginning. You don't have to ask for signs that they are around, you can just feel it. Especially if this is someone who spent a fair part of their life watching over you. I know my mother is here when my stereo volume goes down (she would always tell me to turn my music down) If you were close to your dad you know that he is there with you. Not to sound creepy but he could be standing over your shoulder reading this post...
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@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
11 Feb 09
sorry to hear this friend but there will be a day for every one to go. It will be difficult for you in the begining to adjust your life with out your dad, but you have accept the reality. May god give peace to his soul.
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@meticulo (1286)
• United States
18 Feb 09
Thanks for your sympathy chaitra! Yes, it's difficult but I have accepted it already knowing God is the ultimate source of His life. I just missed him much! But I know I'll be fine in time.
@itsme_cha (504)
• United States
11 Feb 09
sorry to hear that,, well its a reality, coz we all die... i lose my dad when i was 13 it was the most sad part of my life as i am so close to my dad.. as days yrs go by i learn to accept it... i know you will too.
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@meticulo (1286)
• United States
18 Feb 09
Thanks itsme_cha! Yes, we have no choice but to accept the reality that our life here on earth is just temporary and that God have prepared a better place for us in heaven.
@gotetet (197)
• Philippines
19 Feb 09
someone's close to your heart and life will surely be missed much more to our dear beloved father, everytime i got into a picture or just imagining the moments were together , i can't help myself cry, the messages from our friends and my nieces makes me feel loaded with sorrow and just as the saying goes, life must go on, so be it, start a new life without papa but the times and moments, shared with him will be cherished as long as we live. it is in our hearts and nobody can take that from us. FAREWELL PAPA. we'll be missing you always. WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH!
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• United States
18 Feb 09
I am so sorry for your loss! It is never an easy thing to lose a loved one and one that is such an important part of our lives. I would like to say it will get easier but the truth is we just learn to accept it. I lost my father 5 years ago and wow what a hit that was so I completely understand. Then I lost my mom last year so just as I was finally accepting the loss of my dad bamb...I lost my mom. It is very normal to miss him and think about him. The best thing you can do is charish all the time you did have with him and try to keep him in your life. I do this by bringing up things that happened in our lives...usually funny things that make me smile. Remember he will always be with you in spirit.