Do you have a life timeline??

Canada
February 11, 2009 10:19pm CST
Do you have a plan in your head like at what age you want to get married or what age you want to have kids? Or are you more of a Whatever will be will be kind of person?
3 responses
• United States
12 Feb 09
I'm a female who is in her mid-twenties. Before when I was younger around 18/19 I had a plan that I would be married by 24-25. I actually have passed that time and am not married yet. I also thought that I had found the guy that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and planned on getting married to him by the time I was 28/29. This will not be happening, because things did not work out. I have planned twice now in regards to getting married and it has not worked out to the plan and i've been disappointed. I think for me, if I plan I will just become disappointed therefore I am not planning anymore. I am just going on with my life, fulfilling my dreams of success. If I'm not looking, maybe just maybe something will come across that will be great! I definately do want to have kids before I am 30 though. I believe that when women have kids after 30, it is not the best for the child such as the child will not be in the best health, mentally and physically that it couldve been. This is because the woman is past her physical peak. Hopefully, at least that part will work out!
@webneton (134)
• China
12 Feb 09
I have no plan to get married and have a kid,but now all I have.
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@Alex18 (170)
• United States
12 Feb 09
I dont exactly have a plan, but im 18 right now, I have the girl of my dreams but im in college right now. So marriage wont come until im at least 21 and out school and we have talked about that we would be married before we had a child as well. But its more based on when we feel we are in the right situation to be able to support ourselves on our own and can take care of a child and we have the financial ability to do so.
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