relationships

United States
November 9, 2006 5:41pm CST
do you think that once you've been wronged by one person that it makes it harder to trust the next person you get involved with.
6 responses
• Singapore
11 Nov 06
yes, it will take time for you to get over it but at certain point, memories will come back and you will start to doubt again. well, i do have that problem initially but now, i kept telling myself that they are 2 different people, i have to sort it out clearly, if not it would be very unfair to my current bf.
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• United States
12 Nov 06
thanks for your response because i keep comparing my current boyfriend to my ex and now i'm trying my best to give him my whole heart if we plan on getting married...
• Singapore
12 Nov 06
;0) it's natural for us to compare...but it's best to keep it to ourselves though. Good Luck!
• Singapore
16 Nov 06
Thanks for the best response !
• United States
10 Nov 06
I don't think it makes it harder to trust someone...i think the trust is there but you are more cautious when it comes to getting more serious...I've been hurt not by cheating but by the ways my relationships ended! Then when I start seeing someone else I try to make sure the same thing doesn't happen!
• United States
16 Nov 06
thank you!!!!
@hotmom (146)
• United States
12 Nov 06
I think it should make you wiser, not paranoid. No two people are exactly the same, always remember that. With each failed relationship, you are that much closer to the one. Now you know other things you don't want in a mate, but there is one out there with all of their good traits you loved in the first place.
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@neon2000 (2761)
• Philippines
10 Nov 06
It should not be the case. They are different from each other but you have to be careful on your next relationship. It is best to try to work the new relationship than thinking what happened on your past.
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@brokentia (10396)
• United States
10 Nov 06
Sadly, yes. I have been heart so much and so hard that I guard myself. Would that hinder a relationship? Yes, but I am willing to change it? No. I can not be hurt like that again. Thus, the Broken part of my Tia
@gotOBX (764)
• United States
12 Nov 06
Sorry to hear about this Tia. It must have affected you deeply hence your handle here.
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• United States
16 Nov 06
thanks for your comments..
• United States
16 Nov 06
thanks for your comments..
@varun23 (902)
• India
12 Nov 06
Yes I do!!! Majority of them think so!!!!