I Have An Apology To Make To My Friends!

Oooops! Blonde Moment! - My Blonde Moment Award!
@Darkwing (21588)
February 13, 2009 9:05am CST
I was wondering why I was missing so many discussions and coming in late on them, so looked through my Friends List. To my horror, I discovered I only had a few notifiers on and was therefore missing a lot of your discussion... I apologise for that. It took me ages to find how you actually get in to edit the Friends List, but after a couple of hours, I'm all sorted now! Treat it as just another blonde moment!!! I have a lot of those. You're all live now, so I shall be seeing you in your new discussions from now on... long overdue, I know! I'm so sorry I missed so much! To make a discussion of this, do you know how to edit and manage your Friends List and how often do you do so?
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@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
13 Feb 09
I lways go to the friends list every time I accept some one and turn on the notifier!. Alot must not have theirs on for I dont get emails from all of them and then too alot have left just dont know which ones to take out now lol
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@Darkwing (21588)
14 Feb 09
I'm not sure how it works my friend. It seems that having my notifier friends weren't being notified about my discussions. However, it seems to have picked up in this one now that I've switched most of them on! lol. Brightest Blessings, my dear friend and thank you for your contribution.
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@Darkwing (21588)
14 Feb 09
Sorry, Lakota, the second sentence should read "having my notifier *off". Yet another blonde moment! ha ha ha
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@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
15 Feb 09
lol np I think I was on all the time for I think I got all your pots!
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@dlr297 (5418)
• United States
14 Feb 09
well i guess that i am having a blond moment myself right now because i dont know how to turn on notifications, how do i do it, so i dont miss anything from any of my friends,
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@dlr297 (5418)
• United States
14 Feb 09
Thanks for your help, it was so easy. everyone of mine was off, they are all on now. If you would not have brought it up i probably would not have ever known that i could do that, now maybe ill know whats going on with all my friends and take more of a part in all the discussions, and support them more. thanks again.
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@Darkwing (21588)
15 Feb 09
Yes, I think you can look forward to a very busy Mylot Mailbox now, my friend. Still, it's not a bad thing... it keeps the pennies coming in and keeps you in touch with your lovely friends at the same time. I've never seen so many friends all at once before. lol. You're welcome, my friend. I hope you switched mine on! ha ha ha
@mysdianait (65122)
• Italy
13 Feb 09
I guess we have all made that mistake at some point and with some friend or another. You're going to have a lot to catch upon Iguess. Yes I manage my friend list quite easily. As soon as I have a new friend join on list I set the notifier to 'on'. I prefer to have them all set to 'on' and be aware of the topics they are posting in order not to miss something I might find interesting. I sometimes, but not often, go and investigate why certain friends are not posting anymore and contact them through Pm to make sure all is ok unless their profile page is missing in which case I wait a bit longer for them to reappear here and then delete the old one and add the new.
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@Darkwing (21588)
14 Feb 09
I used to set new friends to "on" as well but Mylot have upgraded so many times, that if you accept the friend before switching them on, they disappear into the hordes on your list! lol. Then, when they upgrade, they seem to turn the notifiers off anyway and you have to go all through them to reset. Yes, I'm finding it much more busy now... lots of lovely e-mails! Brightest Blessings and thank you for your contribution.
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@mysdianait (65122)
• Italy
14 Feb 09
That's weird about the notifiers getting turned back to 'off' after an upgrade. That has never happened tome. They have all always been 'on'. Have a great weekend!
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@Darkwing (21588)
15 Feb 09
Hmmmm... well that certainly seemed the case with me, because I suddenly stopped getting e-mails.
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@MsTickle (25064)
• Australia
14 Feb 09
Oh Darkwing...blonde moment indeed! Here you are having created the most wonderful place on the net yet not knowing how to edit the friends list here. I'm laughing and shaking my head. I fine tune my friends list as often as I think I need to. I'm adding new friends at the moment so I clean out some of those that have been inactive for a while or who don't respond to my discussions or start their own. I still have friends on my list who no longer visit myLot but I can't bear to delete them.
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@Darkwing (21588)
14 Feb 09
Hey!!! Don't laff at me! Only joking... I know, but with them updating all the time, Mylot seem to switch notifiers off, or they switch off automatically. Then, I couldn't find how to get in to edit my list of over 400 flipping friends. A lot of those, as you say, have either moved on or don't participate in Mylot any more, so I have to go back and sort them. Oh dear... life is so hectic, but as you say, the site is coming along really well after a few little hiccups. I invited our mutual friend, Horns, but haven't seen her there yet. Perhaps she decided against it, or perhaps she'll join later... I hope she does. Thank you for being so active in there, with so little time to spare. Love the photos. Brightest Blessings, my dear friend, and thank you for your contribution here, too.
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@gabs8513 (48712)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 09
Are you trying to take my Blond Moment away again ??????????? I don't know and I thought you where neglecting me HEHEHEHEHEHE I am so glad I am not the only Blond Hugs xxxxxx
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• Canada
14 Feb 09
I was starting to think she was abandoning or neglecting me too! She really had me worried!
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@Darkwing (21588)
14 Feb 09
Whoooooooo, meeeeeeeeeeee? Never would I steal your blonde moment of glory Gabs. I know I've given myself the award but I don't think I could ever match your blonde moments! As for neglecting you... I don't think so... hope not, anyway! Brightest Blessings, love and hugggs and thank you for your contribiution, my dear friend. xx
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@gabs8513 (48712)
• United Kingdom
14 Feb 09
Well what I did to Gissi this morning certainly tops it for me believe me I am getting worried about my Sanity lol Love you xxxx Purple I thought I had your Addy but I don't think I have
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@mssnow (9493)
• United States
2 Mar 09
I do know how to do it. Although i dont do it often. Im probably just as guilty as you are about not putting notifiers on. But usually I can get around to answering a few from each of my favorites like you. Hugs my dear friend. Take care :)
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@Darkwing (21588)
5 Mar 09
It wasn't so much that I didn't put them on, my friend, but somehow, they got turned back off and I suddenly stopped getting notifications. Then, it took me a while to find the new way of getting into my list to switch them back on again. lol. Brightest Blessings and thank you for your contribution.
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@ElicBxn (60969)
• United States
14 Feb 09
I have all my notifications on, tho for some reason, the lot sometimes turns them off I will go in and remove people that are inactive for like 6 months, but not very often do come back
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@Darkwing (21588)
14 Feb 09
Yes, I've noticed that! When Mylot updates, the notifiers mysteriously go off for some reason. I guess the new updates clear them out... I don't know. Some come back, but usually only for a quick visit, then they're gone again, so I have to next clear out all the stagnant ones. Brightest Blessings and thank you for your contribution.
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• Canada
15 Feb 09
I don't know why, but I don't think that the notifications work all the time anyway, even when we set them "ON". Yes, I know how. I edit them whenever I add a new friend.
@Darkwing (21588)
15 Feb 09
No, I don't know what happens quite, but from time to time, I suddenly stop getting e-mails. For the past few months my e-mails have been few and far between, but all's well now. I'm finding my friends again! :) Brightest Blessings and thank you for your contribution my friend.
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• Canada
15 Feb 09
So basically, your notifications somehow just got turned off without YOU doing it, hmmmmm. So I guess I better check all my friends notifications next time. Oh, here's my chance....another friends request. Blessings.
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@Darkwing (21588)
15 Feb 09
LOL... how convenient! Yes, that's what I'm saying and I put it down to updates somehow automatically turning them off! I don't have absolute proof of course, that's just the way it appears to me.
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• Canada
14 Feb 09
I must say that I am happy to know that it was just a "blonde moment" and nothing serious. I was getting worried because I haven't seen and/or heard anything from you in quite a while! I'm glad your okay, and I;m glad you got everything figured out my friend ;) Hugzz & Luv, PurpleTeddyBear
@Darkwing (21588)
14 Feb 09
Well, I've had my ups and downs over the past year, but for sure, I survived. We had a few family problems and friends seemed to be having a bad time of it too, but hoping for a better year this spin of the Wheel. Yes, it took time to figure it out, but I got there in the end. Now my e-mail has gone looney!!! It's good to be in the thick of things again, though. I'll PM you later, my friend. Brightest Blessings and thank you for your contribution. xxx
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• Canada
14 Feb 09
I'm sorry to hear that 2008 wasn't such a great year for you hun. I hope 2009 is great to you, your family, and your friends! It has been a better year for me so far, I took a bit of a break from MyLot as I had things going on, but am back in full force! I'm happy to be back and have missed you dearly my friend! I look forward to hearing from you later hun! Hugzz & Much Love, PurpleTeddyBear xx
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@Darkwing (21588)
15 Feb 09
Thank you my friend, but we have to work through these things... they're just lessons in life which we need to endure and understand. I missed you a lot too. I love your new teddy! :)
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@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
21 Feb 09
Hi Darkwing! haha..That is alright dear friend. I have all my notifications "ON" however, I am still behind in my response. Seems that everyday, the email notifications are piling up and I can't catch up, especially on days that i can only have few minutes in the computer. I do know how to edit and manage my friends' list but there are other things that I still haven't know how to do here yet. lol..I just recently learned how to post graphics and upload photos because in the past, I always asked my husband to do it for me. Now, I know how and I am enjoying uploading and leaving comments. lol.. Take care and have a great day! lovelots..faith
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@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
Thanks dear friend! lovelots..faith
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@Darkwing (21588)
24 Feb 09
You're welcome, as always. x
@raydene (9874)
• United States
26 Mar 09
Hello Darling I have been wondering how you are. I must check to be sure I have you on because I haven't had your discussion in my email in a while. I've missed your walks Sweets Won't you please take me along on one soon? xoxoxoxo
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@Darkwing (21588)
26 Mar 09
I haven't started a lot of discussions of late, my friend. Life's been fairly hectic around here, but I'm getting back into the swing of it, and others have been asking me about my walks. I'm planning doing one in separate discussions, stopping at different places and describing what's there. That will make sure they don't get too long and wrangling. I'm not sure if I have your e-mail address my friend, but I'd like to send you an invite to my site, so could you send it in PM for me, please? The site's by invitation only, and there are a few Mylotters there, as well as others. Brightest Blessings and thank you for your contribution. xx
@ajithlal (14605)
• India
24 Mar 09
I also accept the friends who have added me in myLot. I always look into profile of my friends and reply to the discussions they have started. I am not an active member in myLot. There are days I had missed myLots. I come to myLot when I am not busy in my life and when I am in good mood. It is nice to see that you will be seeing all the new discussions started by friends.
@Darkwing (21588)
25 Mar 09
Yeah... lol... I'm bogged down at the moment. I've responded to well over forty discussions today after a couple of days out, plus acknowledged other responses and I still have close to seventy in my mail box. I shall have to wade through them though and catch up. Brightest Blessings my friend.
• United States
2 Mar 09
I just told another friend here how has blond moments how to curl that. Dye your hair and then you will never have another blond moment again. heehee
@Darkwing (21588)
2 Mar 09
No way... I like it this colour and it gives me an excuse! ha ha ha. Besides, I have a friend who has red hair and blonde roots! lol.
@royal52gens (5380)
• United States
15 Feb 09
I know how to work with the Friends List. I only turn on a few of my most special friends at a time because if I turn them all on, my email would be bombarded with notices. Blonde moment?? Have you been hanging out with Gabs?? LOL
@Darkwing (21588)
15 Feb 09
Yes, it does create a lot of work when you have them all on. I don't turn on the ones who don't seem to participate very often. Gabs? Noooooooooo... I've been naturally blonde all my life and am older than Gabs, so I guess I've been having blonde moments from way before she was born! ha ha ha. I do hang around with her though and I agree, it's probably not a good time for others to call! ha ha.