What kind of people do you avoid?
February 15, 2009 8:39am CST
I started this discussion cause i have noticed many people i know of have some people that they will want to avoid and will not want to see or meet everyday. like in the work place. and if they can avoid this person they would. what kind of person that you can't have good relationship and would not want to have good relationship with cause you think that it is impossible for you to accept those kind of people for whatever reason because of their attitude. so i am kind of bearable person trying to bear with people with difficult attitude but i do guilty of avoiding people lately. not just because i can't bear seeing or being with them. but because i think that i don't want to waste my time with them and i don't to get affected a lot and i know that i can live a better life or have a better without them. but i can be civil to them and be nice with them. but sometimes being with them means being like taken advantage of or abused and i am thinking that it is unfair in my part if they will be able to keep doing that to me. so i do avoid them cause i don't want to be a victim though i can still bear with it. So here is the list of people that i do try to avoid: 1) Those people who like to ridicule other people and try to humiliate people like making fun out of them though they will make it appear they are just making some clean jokes. and i think that they really try to ridicule people cause they have miserable lives and this is the only way for them to find some fun or happy times in their lives. cause i think if you are truly happy person you don't have to resort to this kind of ridiculing to be happy in life. 2) those people who have some kind of vices that i can't accept. I don't mind if they do that. but i don't want to be part of it. I just want to be away from thsoe kind of vices that i have not learned to do. 3) Those people who always give the so called constructive criticisms. which is in now way constructive at all. Very irritating. 4) Those people who think that they are better than you and knows all. I don't mind if they know it all but to make it appear you are not good enough because they are good at it is really annoying. 5) Those people who impose their spiritual beliefs or values in life. I do appreciate or have high respect for them. But i don't think that they should be so preachy. They should do it in more respectful way and not to act like we are sinners and they are the saints. I think that there are ways to teach share other people our beliefs. but we should know how to do it right without offending them as much as possible. 6) People who thinks that we should be married in our age. Grrr. i really hate it when people keeps asking me why i am still not married. 7) I don't like people who are just nice in front of you but not good behind your back. Well, that is just some of my life. How about you. Do you have some lists.
15 Feb 09
yes that is true. that is why i just choose to hang around people with same beliefs like you. so i do choose the people very carefully. but as i have said i still can be civil to those who does gossip but i don't engage in their talks cause i don't want to belittle other people. it will be unfair for them. i used to have lots of neighbors who are so nosy. but thankfully they have relocated already. and my life has been much better ever since.
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15 Feb 09
Have you ever heard the term toxic people? Well thats the type of people I will avoid. They are not good for you and can bring you down. I will avoid the people that like to dish out put downs, people that think there better then anyone else, people with no morals, people that are just plan bad and so on.