What do you expect from a Lover??

@djemba (767)
India
February 15, 2009 10:58am CST
For me i always want her to stay right by my side in all situations and trust me and appreciate me in what i do??Help me with my mistake ..Not point out and make fun..Is that too much to ask for??What do you expect from a loved one??
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5 responses
@jlamela (4909)
• Philippines
16 Feb 09
I expected my lover to always respect and trust me because it is very important in any relationships anyway. I want him to have a sense of direction in life and provide support and understanding.
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@pickwick (858)
• India
15 Feb 09
I have too much of expectatons djemba.Besides being with me through thick and thin I expect too much of attention.I expect him to be very romantic and also have a sense of humour.I also expect him to be mature enough at the same time to deal with uncomfortable situations i create for myself.Oh the list is endless!
@djemba (767)
• India
15 Feb 09
That's a lot to ask from one guy.If you don't mind me asking have you managed to find a guy???If you have then either you've been lucky or I've been living in the wrong world because i haven't found one perfect girl.
@pickwick (858)
• India
15 Feb 09
No, I havent!And I have been married to just the opposit sort of man for the past decade!Best of luck in your search!
@djemba (767)
• India
15 Feb 09
I am sorry but you have to adjust and get the best out of him..Wishing you a happy married life..
@iamsolucky (1243)
• Philippines
19 Feb 09
I am expecting respect, honesty, appreciation and understanding. if someone really loves me, he wont be a control freak and want to fight who is more powerful and dominant one in the relationship. I want all equal, there's no control, no highest, no lowest, who is smart, who is better and so on. We all need to love and be loved, expecting more can hurt as badly though. But its good if we have good qualities to share, and thats important in loving. values that money cant buy.
@MsTickle (24752)
• Australia
17 Feb 09
I expect everything! Trust, respect, thoughtfulness, companionship, friendship, truth, fidelity, love, laughter, communication, intimacy, loyalty, hope, faith,...I know that's a lot but it's what I'm willing to give. I want a lover I can admire, respect, depend on, be close to, look up to. I want someone who wants me to be happy and does his best to help me to be my best. I want someone who can share my dreams and hopes and has his own to share. I want someone who is funny, well mannered and reasonably intelligent. It's all a bit much it seems cos I haven't found him yet.
@blue65packer (11835)
• United States
15 Feb 09
Trust, respect, communication, to have fun, mutual understanding, to be there for me, not when I don't! Be the lover I need! Please me! Don't do it just to please youself!