Who hates you ?

@sunil_008 (1270)
India
February 16, 2009 8:51am CST
Hi all, we all always talks about love and related issues of it. but we always hiding the one big fact that.that is someone on this planet hates us the most for some reasons. so my question is who hates you the most and why? I think my X boss hates me the most.because i left without notice and he came to know all these after 15 days that through my current boss.They are good friends for a long time. so he couldn't even complain about me to him...lucky escape... anyone is free to say anything...
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@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
16 Feb 09
I guess the person who I considered my best bud at work before hates me now. We had a lot of misunderstanding...and the one thing that I hate when I get mad is that...I can't control my mouth...I just say anything that comes to my mind.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
oh but that's quite natural to me. when someone gets angry over some serious issue then it is quite understandable that he speaks out of fire...what happened between you and your bud for such a situation now?...
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
16 Feb 09
Well its a long story...but it has something to do with money matters.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
Then certainly that thing would go for sometime now...
@jolasu (49)
• United States
17 Feb 09
I love this one. I'm sure there are plenty of people who hate me since I'm not always the best at putting on the fake smile and I tend to actually let people know what I really think instead of what's PC at the moment. There are a couple that stand out in my mind as people that hate me more than most. One is my husband's ex - she hates me just on principle and I actually get a little enjoyment out of that since she also knows where her bread is buttered and it really torques her to have to be nice. She actually has no reason to hate me and although she wouldn't be my choice of a friend, I don't dislike her. Another one that hates me is an ex-boyfriend and I also hate him, but both of us have justified reasons. He cheated on me, which isn't so bad in itself except he did it in a way that made me look like a fool in front of pretty much everyone I know. So I got revenge in a really big way....... so all's fair I guess on that one. :)
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
17 Feb 09
Hi I must say i have been looking for a response like this one...has she not any reason to hate you ! well you have already taken her toast. what's left in there... what you exactly did to your xbf? well, i am sure that's not too personal to ask (if you like can share here...at least some of it).i am just too excited to know the revenge of a woman...there is a reason too for it...i was a victim of something like ...:)
@jolasu (49)
• United States
17 Feb 09
Actually she doesn't have any reason to hate me. She ditched her "toast" a year or better before I ever met him. Since I have met him, I've actually financially kicked in out of my previous finances to help assist him with money that needs to go into her pocket. Had I not been here, she'd not have gotten all that she has. As for my ex b-f. He was a turd. We dated because it seemed like a good career move for both of us. I doubt we ever really liked eachother, but some respect should have definately been a given. We both, and both companies, stood to gain. In the end, I held more career power (he was a moron and handed over half the power just out of stupidity). I had his company's most intimate details of a lawsuit they were in, in addition to their pay records and records needed to issue an invoice to their big customer at the time. I should have been a big girl and let him hand that in to his boss and never let out the secret that he had actually been subcontracting me to figure it out, but I wasn't feeling like a big girl. I personally handed it in. He lost his job. Got pretty much black-balled in the industry in this state and last I heard had had a psychopathic breakdown and was working for minimum wage in Arizona. You just do NOT walk out of my local, hometown bar with the town-pump in front of my friends and competitors and expect that somehow I won't get pissy.
@jolasu (49)
• United States
17 Feb 09
As my dad said: hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
• Philippines
17 Feb 09
I always believe that my bestfriend hates me. Though she's not saying it nor showing it to others, she does things that makes me feel she hates me. I don't know why she's acting as such though. I've been a good friend to her for 15 years and she's been bad most of the times. Still, I consider her my bestfriend and haven't revenged or do anything bad to her. Many of my friends say she's just jealous but oh well...
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
17 Feb 09
girl's pretend things so well, and in between the sugar coated waords hardly any chance of catching em...but, you read them as well?...did you steal her boy friend?
• Philippines
17 Feb 09
Hmmm... on the contrary, she is fond of flirting with my exes and stealing my suitors so that couldn't be the reason she's somewhat mad at me
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
17 Feb 09
oh that's so ridiculus...well, i would suggest you to stay away from her then...
@JenInTN (27565)
• United States
17 Feb 09
I'm hoping noone hates me but I suppose that's ridiculous to believe. I am one of those people you really like or you don't like at all. There is no in between where I am concerned. I haven't done anything inparticular for these feelings except be myself so I can't say why or how..but I'm sure they are out there..lol..
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
17 Feb 09
Hi jen! so according to you either quite a lot hate you...or none of them.but the taste and thinking varies from person to person. they say nothing is complete black or white.the shade here is now grey...do you believe in it...
@JenInTN (27565)
• United States
17 Feb 09
Oh yes..I do believe there can be gray but after a while I think people tend to choose. I don't think I have anyone lurking in the bushes ready to attack me or anything that extreme but I do tend to make a strong impression. Maybe good maybe not..maybe black maybe white..lol
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
17 Feb 09
difficult to understand a woman...
@ANTIQUELADY (36488)
• United States
16 Feb 09
hate is such a strong word. i hope noone hates me. there may be someone that does of course. i don't hate anyone but there is some folks i sure don't like.lol
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
it is indeed.i hope so too...so can you be more precise if you want to .who's that someone who hates you and why...and whom you don't like?
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@ANTIQUELADY (36488)
• United States
16 Feb 09
i don't know who hates me as i said noone i hope. who don't i like, well let's see my ex for one & just some people in general.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
17 Feb 09
I don't know but i feel that you won't find a single person in that que...
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@syankee525 (6294)
• United States
17 Feb 09
oh there used to be few who did, i've been threaten many of times, and i am like whatever here i am and now what? but i am more respected by many more then hated by.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
17 Feb 09
well, in one word you are lucky...hated by many and loved by so many...hardly i can manage that. so what is the trick in every escape...???
• United States
17 Feb 09
had a friend tell me one night, he was like so many respect you for many reasons, i don't see people as what they are, but who they are, i treat all my friends the same no matter who's around us. i am very straight with anyone, i will tell you what i think you need to hear not what you want to hear. i am also respected because i don't try to act like someone i am not, or pretend i know something when i don't. pretty much here i am like me or hate me, i am not changing for no one
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
18 Feb 09
being the original sometimes pays you a fortune though...on the other hand people love that character...i can understand why friends like you...all i would like to say keep going with that...
@jerzgirl (8030)
• Gloucester City, New Jersey
16 Feb 09
My former supervisor hated me - she made it quite clear. She mocked me on a daily basis, talked about me within hearing range of me, wrote me up for things that she decided were punishable offenses, even if they were things I had been told to do previously. The feeling was mutual. I detested her then and I detest her now. When she discovered that I had seen her profile on LinkedIn, she changed it to private. If anyone could fall victim to disaster, I wouldn't be bothered one bit if it were her.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
+Hi, from your words she sounds like another brutal boss around the corner...but didn't really understand who hates the most...:)
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@jerzgirl (8030)
• Gloucester City, New Jersey
16 Feb 09
Yeah, I guess I didn't really define the order of things. Mine grew, but apparently she disliked me at the interview and got angry that HER boss overruled her in hiring me. She told several people and everyone in the office knew I wasn't HER choice. She made it clear to several people that if she had her way, there would be NO women in her department because she didn't like working with women - they didn't understand men the way she did. My dislike for her grew over time, especially as I learned more and more about the things she said about me and got away with.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
oh that's such a bad company you had been.for how long did you have to work with her.did you feel her tongue everyday? I wonder how can it just starts with some people from the word "let's begin".
• United States
16 Feb 09
I know that no one hates me at work. I think if anyone hates me it would have to be my boyfriends brother. He's dating my boyfriend's wife. Long story! Anyway, he's still trying to get a divorce and his wife's boyfriend (my boyfriend's brother) hates my guts for some reason and I didn't even do anything to him. He just can't stand me for some reason and I don't think he's too bad of a person. I like my boyfriend's wife too. She's nice to talk to. He has his reasons for not liking me, I guess. I can't think of anyone else that hates me though.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
here came one inside story . how complicated is a woman's feeling.thats a separate issue though...in the beginning i got little confuse. who's dating whom? ...now all cleared in my mind. since you don't the exact reason for him to dislike you . have you never tried to find out the reasons. i am sure it won't take much effort to know if you really want to...
• United States
16 Feb 09
Well, Justin is my boyfriend and Barry is his brother. Justin and Barry's sister Sara took a lot of money from Justin's mom and moved away. I started to dislike Sara for what she did and Barry took up for her. I think that's why he hates me so much...because I was mad at his sister. he doesn't really like anyone to come inbetween him and his family. I don't know he hates me so much, but that's my best guess.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
well then he has a point. you shouldn't have interfered in someone's family matter...but you did...
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
16 Feb 09
Hi, It's my CONSCIENCE.Everytime I over-rule it's direction and give importance to Brain in taking decisions,my conscience hates me....even today.... =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
great observation my friend... are you not tired of being hate so many times?
• India
18 Feb 09
Hi, Experiened & RICH...not Tired,Dear!
• Indonesia
16 Feb 09
I dont know who hates me in my workplace or if any of my friends hates me... Because here in my place we dont show anyone that we hate em. we keep a nice face and attaitude as a matter of courteousness... But I hope nobody will hate me, maybe somebody dislike what I'm doing but I dont like it when people hate me...
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
Hi dear , i don't agree with you. because somebody somewhere must been hating you may it because you are prettier than her, may be you getting some favour from boss at the work place... we all hide those things and puts up the nice attitude person mask after some incident. so i just wanted to know can you remember someone who hates you for something...
@Nancy312 (283)
• China
17 Feb 09
i think that's envy,not hate
• India
17 Feb 09
One of my X friend hates me a lot because she things that because of me she got a bad name so he hates me and yes i know she will hate me for ever, Actually the fault is not mine but well i could not convince her that the fault was not at my side it was at one of my cousins side but well i am at a negative to her. first i used to think a lot on this issue but now a days just left off because i felt that it was useless in still trying to convince her when she is not ready to listen to me.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
17 Feb 09
i am little confused now...whether your friend is male or female...so someday (if you are still in contact with her) call her for a meeting, stay calm and tell her the entire situation. but before that make your impression good all around ...otherwise it won't work...
• United States
17 Feb 09
Well, if someone does hate me they've not let me know lol. I think it's sad though to hate. It's such a strong emotion and can we really honestly say we "hate" anything? Or is it that someone reflects to us something in our own person? Or perhaps it is jealousy of someone else's success or such? Where your job is concerned, it's against the law for them reveal that information to another here in the US. I'm not sure where you are from but you might want to look at what your employment laws are. Namaste-Anora
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
17 Feb 09
Namaste Anora, i think job code is same everywhere.you have to maintain secrets about your clients.but, i don't think anything wrong if you speak few words about your Ex-Boss or current Boss.its just an individual opinion about some people that you work with...anyway as you have mentioned Hate is s strong word.but people do say things like i hate that/them/her/him... indeed people hate it when they feel enough is is enough...happy my lotting
• China
17 Feb 09
I think our boss zhao maybe hate hate us ,because we all always ask money for him day after day.but that isn't the mistake of us ,that's we should get!
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
17 Feb 09
Hi, then he has reason to hate...though not a legit one...happy my lotting
@victorywp (3526)
• Malaysia
17 Feb 09
i would say my manager. he always think that i will threaten his job as a manager because the directors like me. it has been about four years now & he don't really talk to me & always accuse me for nothing. i got to know this from one of the directors. oh please, i'm not interested in his post & i'm leaving if i get a better offer!
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
17 Feb 09
Hi, i believe what you are saying.but who's going to convince the scared man! well he must be feeling too unsecured as manager now.i have got some simmilar story.where one of my manager thinks that soon he will be replaced by one of the senior here.so, he's hardly coming to us for anything these days...happy my lotting
@nsujin (91)
• India
16 Feb 09
Satan hates me and everybody. He wants everyone to go to hell.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
I think he loves us all so much... that's why he wants us to give avisit to his place...:) happy my lotting
@1rickyme (146)
• India
16 Feb 09
I think my brother hates me a lot, because I am always back of him all the time, because he always creates some nuisance. Sometimes, he picks my bike without my permission and create some damage. So I always hit him. Whenever I have a reason but later I realize myself that I should not be rude towards him. but I love him after all. He's my brother.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
I don't think he hates you at all.otherwise wouldn't take your bike whenever gets a chance...you two are really enjoying the relation at the moment...am sure he loves you the same...happy my lotting
• United States
16 Feb 09
Well most everybody hates me i have only one good friend who does not,but she knows me very well after 22 years she should.I am very blunt,out spoken and tell it is,if you hate me for that sounds like a personal problem to me. you no it does not bother me because a true friend never lets you down never lies to you is always there when you need them.That's what i have in my friend.i have what you call so called friends that say what they you want to hear.But thats why people hate me because i am honest and i dont sugar coat any thing.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
I think that's your strength. i have seen women to be very sweet speaking,generous and hardly hurt others...they know a lot about a person but hardly say anything in his face...i think i would suggest you to keep it up. and what you said about the friendship things is absolutly true. friends should be like that. a single friend like that can help you the most what others can't do...thanks for the response happy lotting...
@springs (926)
• India
16 Feb 09
I hate a guy,which is my classmate.He tried to threaten my lover.I Hate him Thats all
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
he must be jealous of your relationship with the other boy...but he shouldn't have done that...thanks for the response...happy my lotting
@rainmark (4306)
16 Feb 09
Hi there, im not sure who hates me,when i was in college im don't know someone's hate me, but i know who always made a gossips about me and always talk about me coz of maybe jealousy. Now im a fulltime wife, always staying inside the house looking after my baby, i have no friends around here to go out. Maybe my hubby hates me sometimes when im moody. Happy posting.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
that means you had quite a number bf's during your college days...just kidding...since you are fulltime mom now.oh have you never asked your hubby about this...quite a lot of people hates moody ones in this world do you know that?...
• Canada
16 Feb 09
HA!I'm sure lots of peoples hate me but no one has the balls to say it to my face.I think i have really good friends but i also have some "friends" who i know don't like me,they just like to pretend,just waiting to see what they can get out of me.You know peoples who hang out just for benefits.
@sunil_008 (1270)
• India
16 Feb 09
well in a clivilised society its some kind of manners that people don't really express their anger, hate things in front of you...but if you think somebody hates you for some reason have you ever tried to know the reason...i wouldn't call them as friends though...