Do you trust your friend with everything or anything?

@apples99 (6556)
United States
February 16, 2009 10:08pm CST
For the most part I trust my friends, but I dont know if can truly say that trust my friends with any and everything, because I have known people who has had really close friends that have stabbed them in the back in one way our another, and I just dont know if I trust anyone so much that I would trust them with everything in my life, the only people that I completely trust is my family. so tell me do you trust your friends with any and everything in your life?
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• India
17 Feb 09
not anymore i always rememebr tht humans make mistaeks n they r not machines tht we can trust completion happy lotting and have a nice day
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
17 Feb 09
Yea your right everyone can be subject to human flaw and mistakes, and I dont think anyone should put there complete and total trust in anyone, because you just never know if a so called closest friend can really and truly be trusted its sad but its life. Thank-you for sharing your veiws and feelings on this topic.
• India
18 Feb 09
yeah I knw! :D but ppl change n they drop their trust in ppl whn they r emotional so tht si why we shud b super careful sure thing hope u make the right decision in trustin ur frinds
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
17 Feb 09
because of past situations I don't trust anyone 100%, I have learnt when people are friends trust seems to be ok but it is when the friendship goes a little sour that the things you have trusted people with seems to be at risk...
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
17 Feb 09
I have similar feelings when it comes to trust. thank-you for sharing your feelings and views on this topic.
@SmilyQin (179)
• China
17 Feb 09
me too, friend in need is a friend indeed.I won,t trust anyone all the time.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
18 Feb 09
I trust my best friend with everything and anything I can tell her whatever it is that is on my mind and not worry about a thing that she would say. I know she doesn't judge me or anything and that she would give me her honest opinion even if it would hurt because she does love me. It is the same with my boyfriend, I trust him with everything.
• Regina, Saskatchewan
18 Feb 09
No not 'anything and everything', and it's not because I'm afraid of what they will do or not do. I have ONE friend that I WOULD trust with anything and everything, but even from her, there are parts of me that I keep for myself and to myself. It would upset my sense of who I am at my core, the strength of my convictions and my sense of balance to put into the hands of ANYONE all the bits and pieces that make up my inner self. Besides, I'M still learning about the facets to who I am, so how could I 'give it all away'...............
@Humbug25 (12540)
17 Feb 09
Hi apples99 I have friends that I will tell some things to and other friends I trust with other things. The only person I trust 100% is my mum but then there are certain things I don't even tell her because I respect her and she doesn't need to hear such things like about my love life! LOL
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
17 Feb 09
Me too, the only person I really trust is my mom and sister, those are the people that really deserve my complete trust.
@jolasu (49)
• United States
18 Feb 09
I trust my friends with everything that I don't care if the whole world knows about. I do not trust them with things I wouldn't want the whole town to know. As I've learned, just because they're a friend today doesn't mean they won't become an enemy later. I do trust my husband, it's a choice I make to do so, but I don't feel that it would be right to even be in a marriage if I wouldn't trust my partner. Maybe that'll bite me someday too, but he is the one person I'm willing to take that chance with.
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
17 Feb 09
I have one best friend who knows everything about me. Even my darkest and horrifying secrets. LOL I am so comfortable telling her everything because she is a true friend. She does the same to me, too. We very well understand each other.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
17 Feb 09
I really only trust 2 friends with just about everything! They are guys and they can keep secerts and don't blab! I have had lots of problems with women friends! They can be witchs,blabbermouths,and back stabbers! So I don't have mant female friends! With the ones I am friends with I avoid telling them alot of stuff! Especailly with one women I work with! I really avoid her with just about everything! I have to! Other wise I get drilled with why,what and were! She's relentless! So you can see, for me, guys make better friends!