You are single now ,why?

@SmilyQin (180)
China
February 18, 2009 10:12pm CST
Some of my friends alway question me,"You are single now,why?" I am lazy to answer,and at the same time I don't quite know the amswer! I haven't found the right person. I don't have that much time. I don't like the feeling of dependent on others or let others dependent on me. A lot of reasons,or a lot of excuses! How about yours? Let's share!
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8 responses
• United States
19 Feb 09
Reka: I am too busy doing my school work to actually even thing about why I am single now. I never actually thought about it. I guess it is just that with all of my school work I just don't have time to look into a relationship right now. Tai: I am scared to be in a relationship. My past experiences weren't bad but seeing how my friends' have been treated I can say that I am a little scared of taking that chance and getting into a relationship with someone who is abusive. Their relationship really scared me.
@SmilyQin (180)
• China
19 Feb 09
Sometimes I have the same feeling.
@owlwings (40111)
• Cambridge, England
22 Feb 09
Reka and Tai are two very wise people.
@anuj34 (10)
• India
27 Feb 09
i think that there is no specific reason behind being single,i like to chill out with my friends whenever i am free and when you are commited you have to give time to your partner as well and sometimes it becomes really difficult for a person to give time and i think a person should not get into a releationship during the age of 16,17...... and also some other reasons do exist like not getting a right person as you said.
@billowy (66)
• China
27 Feb 09
I have not a lot of friend, maybe because I'm a silent person. So I have few choice to be in a relationship.
@enciel (371)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
true this is a question a lot of people usually ask when you are starting to age or in your early 20's, sad as it may seem I can't seem to find the right answer to that question to myself. I am not sure if it is my choice, partly i think but maybe because i haven't found that person that i feel so strongly with. I have been single for a long time a NBSB as some may say but i do hope i won't be single for the rest of my life! T_T
• Philippines
22 Feb 09
How old are you? If you are just in your early twenties, you have nothing to worry because the right person will just come in due time. I have many friends who are in thier late thirties who are still single and are not worrying about finding their true love. I got married at the age thirty and the only reason why I married late was that: the man destined to be my lifetime partner came late. I believe in destiny.
• China
20 Feb 09
Hi, I noticed that these days you never change your topic,your use "single" as your topic for a long time.... Maybe that's a problem.but it depends on ourselves.., To be (single) or not to be (single),I don't think its importent... Besides,believe that your dreaming girl or prince charming will come out one day the day he or she should come....
@roc080 (56)
• India
19 Feb 09
I don't know it not so complicated but my relationship last for 2 to 3 months max hence I become single every quarter of a year. People don't ask me whether I am single or not they usually ask when are you getting in one.
@blue65packer (11835)
• United States
19 Feb 09
I'm single because I choose to! I went through to many years trying to find someone and thinking I needed someone! I finally woke up and realized I am better of single! It also helped on my decision that must of my past relationship were lousey! So single is for me!