Why are women like this?

Nigeria
February 19, 2009 3:53am CST
"Women are like shadows.If u follow them they'll runaway.But when you run away, they'll follow you"....... I use to have a girl i so much love that throughout the relationship i never lied to her. I did not even have s.e.x with her(cos she was a virgin then and a kinda afraid). I never offended her. I gave her all i had......But suddenLY she just told me she needs a break-which could mean forever.So she left.... I decided i won't date anyone again until i feel like having kids. You know what? I now av girls BEGGING me to date them. I do tell them to their face that i'm not ready or that i don't love them. You know what they say? Most said THEY DON'T MIND. i TREAT THEM CARELESSLY NOW WHITHOUT ANY AFECTION ATALL-But they seem to love me more. WHY ARE WOMEN ALWAYS LIKE THAT? Why can't they just appreciate it when u lov them and do all they can to make it work. Why do we need to hid the fact that we love a lady just to make her stay? WHY ARE THEY ALWAYS LIKE THAT?
3 responses
@savypat (20248)
• United States
19 Feb 09
If you continue to treat others in a careless way you will never find what you seek. You must consider all people as God's creatures and look for him in them. Women are attracted to an unfinished man because they think they will be the one to change him for the better. But you disrespect yourself when you don't respect women. Blessings
• Nigeria
19 Feb 09
I'll never find what i seek???? I seek nothin in women anymore. If i have my way i won't date a lady for another 10yrs. Moreso i did not force myself on anyone...They asked for it. If i disrespect myself when i don't respect women, so what will you call it, when i am taking for granted for respecting women. I doubt if any lady can change anything about me anymore. I am sure i am a wrong choice for any lady that thinks she can get a green pasture out of me. THANKS
@iamsolucky (1243)
• Philippines
19 Feb 09
With my current relationship right now, i can say that i love and appreciate my boyfriend very much. and he knows that. I dont want to hurt his feelings, i know we fight but i never intentionally hurt his feelings. Not all woman will take advantage of your goodness. Sometimes you dont have to think black and white only. there is always grey in between. Not all women are like that. I hope you can find a woman you will love and will love you too in return, and respect your feelings.
• Nigeria
19 Feb 09
You mentioned ur CURRENT RELATIONSHIP. Is that to mean the formal ones were not like this one? You see that is the problem. Before my girl left-i mean the one i love-i'm used to thinking the best thing is to date a lady with all my heart and show are all the kindness and love i have....But with what have experienced, seen and heard ladies are better treated as GREY- like you rigthly said.....Don't love a lady too much so that she won't misbehave or take you for granted and don't hate her too much so that she won't run away......Tell me this two years ago i'll say you are wrong. But now? I AM SURE!!!!!!!!!!!!! THANKS
@dsnature (41)
• United States
22 Feb 09
I don't think you are taking the positive attitude towards girls or women. God give us so different characterisics, and that's why we are called individuals. You can not take your first girl-friend as the tye of all girls. Sometimes not only women, but human beings need a vocano inside themselves. As far as I know, girls always like to be treated like a princess. If you do wanna have kids, treat your relations seriously. you don't wanna have kids without a Mommy, right? If you continue doing this, girls will leave you. Now they can say "never mind", but everyone is craving for love and being loved. don't waste the feelings God give to you, and you will find your true love.
• Nigeria
23 Feb 09
Well, if you say so. If'll have my way, i wouldn't want a 'mummy'. Maybe you are right about my GF. Maybe all ladies are not like that.....We shall see if that is true (in time). Majority of what i have seen and heard are always like that anyway, but we shall see if you are right... THANKS