How do you feel?

@rajfoe (354)
India
February 20, 2009 7:14am CST
Hi friends how do you feel when your close friend/your boyfriend/grilfriend/family members scold you. Do you feel left alone in the world. What do you do usually when it happens to you? If you ask me i just go out and come to home after sometime. What do you do? Happy mylotting
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13 responses
@suzzy3 (8368)
23 Feb 09
I don't think I would like it very much,my mate has a go at me sometimes but she has a good reason and i except it.Normally over my attitude or telling my son off ,she will put me right,and on the odd occasion I have done the same thing to her.but we are great mates and can survive a dispute.Apart from that it never really happens as I am fifty with a strong mind it does not affect me,when I was younger it happened my parents would tell me off,but really and truley they were right and were only doing it for my own good ,I used to put things right by apologising to them and doing extra chores.x
• India
22 Feb 09
weneva my parents shout at me 4 not studyin or ne other thngs i usually go to my room and listen to music.. and i tell them that i am studyin... and at that tym iam lyk surfin on net and listenin to muzik!!!
@my125125 (822)
• Malaysia
21 Feb 09
Hi Rajfoe, I will feel sad that if they scold me, but if they were the right one, then I would take their advice to think about what I am doing, is it right. If I am sure that I am the right one, the I will explain back to them, untill they accept my opinion.
@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
21 Feb 09
It depends upon the situation. But I usually let them hear my side after they scolded me.
• United States
21 Feb 09
Wow, I don't really know how to respond to that. I don't have anyone in my life scold me. I surround myself with people who just don't do that. I'm guessing that if that were to happen I would be angry. Actually, I had a boss several years ago that scolded me and she made me quite upset. I lost my trust in her. Because of the way she acted, I had a hard time being around her because I was always afraid she would do it again. I felt like as the boss, she should have handled herself more professionally. I think scolding leads to a lot of hurt and hard feelings.
20 Feb 09
Hi rafoe, My husband don't scold me, I am not a child to be scold and if anyone to do the scolding it would be me. Tamara
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
20 Feb 09
I will not feel good but i will not feel being left alone.. Instead, i will take it very badly and see it as something serious.. I guess nobody likes to be scolded, and especially being scolded by those ple whiom are close to us.. If i'm faced with such a situation, i will change into my running gear and go out for a run instead.. Relax myself, after which, shower and sleep immediately.. lol =D
@djemba (767)
• India
20 Feb 09
Well i analyze what could be the reason for their scoldings and usually i find my fault..so i can't feel bad because they're just trying to correct me..But i hate it if its without a reason which is rather rare.I go for a walk or put some music on and put my earplugs on..
@savypat (20247)
• United States
20 Feb 09
Everyone feels badly about that, but some have mixed feeling because that is the only attention they get.
@borgborg (821)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
My parents often scolds me because of a lot of things, most of the time its because that I'm so picky while eating. They always say that I'm so thin... blah-blah! What annoys me is that they often do that while I am eating after i went home from work! -cherry
@ronnyb (6125)
• Jamaica
20 Feb 09
It usually depends on what they scold me about ,I amy feel a little hurt but then I know that they are my friends and as such they are looking out for my best interest.So even if I am hurt I will look into what they are saying.Thank you for your answer.
@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
20 Feb 09
Hello rajfoe! Whether you believe it or not, my sister scolded me. At the age of 22, she still have to guts to say what I will do or won't do when in fact I have been doing good with my studies (I graduated already) All I did was, go to bed, sleep and just let her talk and talk until she will be tired of talking..hehehe
• United States
20 Feb 09
i absolutely hate that feeling. i hate it even more when i know that i am right and i should have at least one person on my side.