To marry or not ?

@tudors (1556)
China
February 21, 2009 6:35am CST
This is one of the most often asked questions. When do you plan to get married? Are you seeing anybody? Do you plan to do love or arrange? What sought of a partner are you looking?
1 response
@maean_19 (4663)
• Philippines
21 Feb 09
I want to get marry, but it won't be too soon after I will become a lawyer. Yes, I want to be a lawyer first before settling down and establish my own family. That is also when I would be emotionally, morally, mentally, financially, spiritually and psychologically ready and prepared to become a wife and a mother. Marriage is a commitment and a responsibility. It involves mutual love,respect,trust,loyalty and understanding between the married couple. I do have a boyfriend and we have more than 4 years relationship now. He wants us to get marry, but I told him I could not for now because of my reason mentioned above. He respect that reason, anyway. I would definitely go for marriage because of love. I believe though that love may fade sometime, but I believe more that it is a feeling that both has to work for to keep it stronger and longer. It is very hard to set an ideal qualification of a partner because I believe there is no perfect mate. i would be very glad if the qualifications am looking for will be met. Certainly, my ideal partner is someone who is hardworking, articulate,responsible, loves me more, and understanding.