I will not get affected by your criticisms..

Cat - A picture of a cat
Philippines
February 22, 2009 2:16am CST
People would tend to criticize your own personal point of view, they don't understand the meaning of it at all. But anyway i would not let myself feeling down and low by that. As long as i stand on my decision here. How about you? would you get irritated by them? For me, i let them be. I would not gain anything if i level myself on you. This is my standard.
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@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
26 Feb 09
Hello strawberrychocodahi! I agree with you. There are many people here would really try to pull you down. I even met someone here who commented on my comments like this "Pinay ka nga, gold digger. Go pinayz!" It's a little bit frustrating that the one who said that is a filipino. But I just ignore him and like you, would not level myself on him. I have also met someone here who is using harsh words on one of my discussion and I don't understand why. There are some weird people here but very few.
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
You know there are just some people who can't do anything good in their life so here comes the crab mentality thing going on with them. I have encountered some old freaking guys telling me sh*ts because I didn't ever want to talk to them. They just can't accept how loser they are. The best way is to ignore them. Whatever they say against you is nothing! You know yourself better. So the hell with the f*ckers! I hope they get a life!
• United States
1 Mar 09
thanks for the best response straw..I really appreciate it..
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
22 Feb 09
Well everyone has their own perceptives, opinion, ideas, you have your own life. Though people sometimes have their own, and I just respect it. No one can judge you as long as they know you that well who you are, and sometimes they just criticize you cause they still wanna see you the best, still it's up to you cause it's your life and you make your life. Yes you are right by not be affected by it, and still you go on. Have a nice day to you!
• Philippines
22 Feb 09
Have a nice day too!
@nikky28 (1572)
• India
22 Feb 09
That is a good attitude, strawberry. I am open to constructive criticisms and take positive feedback and take it sportingly. However, there are people who are habitual cynics who love to criticise people for the heck of it or to thwart the other people down. I do get annoyed by that but not sad. People have their own perception and what is wrong for one person might be right for the other person. Truth is relative and so there might not be one right answer. I don't normally like people who try to bully others and have a holier-than-thou attitude. Not a good way to make friends lol. Have a nice day!
• Philippines
22 Feb 09
Yes, i don't know why they react so much, didn't they know the meaning of personal opinion. Have a nice day too!
@jenisky (406)
• Philippines
27 Feb 09
hi, i believe that we all have different point of views.and i know that this is a forum where everyone is entitled to give their own opinions,to each its own.but i wish these people must come up with some constructive criticisms rather than destructive one.isn't it nice if we said our piece but respect the others opinions? have a nice day sis:)
@lampar (7597)
• United States
25 Feb 09
Criticism is no big deal to me, so long as it is not vulgar. Look at it positively, some criticisms can even make me a better person and correct my mistake, so no reason for me to get mad or irritated or affected by it.
@Andyck (221)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 09
eww, everybody is unique. we know what kind of ideal person. And this is bad if you listening all of people opinion/comment about you. if you read chick soup book, you know that learning shutdown has already happens to people. It was easy for children under 5 years to learning anything, language, writing, drawing, etc because they don't understand about criticism or comment, they don't care about fat, slim, weight, high, doing right or doing wrong. Your mind have a door, and the key is yours. It's depend on you, you want open it or close it if someone give you critic/comment or opinion. Keep going strawberry....
• China
22 Feb 09
Hi,strawberry,I am a youngling here without starting a discussion at present,so that problem hasn't occurred to me.Everyone has his onw opinion,we accept good ones and let the bad ones alone,right? Wish you happy!