WHY we must get marry?

China
February 23, 2009 2:23am CST
HI everybody! Did you have some time that your parents?relatives and friends all people around you urge you to get marry with someone. To me, i never wanna be married without MR.RIGHT. Maybe i have or had a relationship with someone, but i find that it is hard to make a decision to have a long-time relationship even the marriage.
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6 responses
jamborieman
@jamborieman (563)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
I think it depends on your religion but.. marrying does mean having a son or a daughter. It is in the law of the bible I guess that if you marry you must produce an offspring therefore making what God said "Be fertile and multiply" happen.
Galena
@Galena (9110)
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23 Feb 09
my wedding later this year won't change my plans to never have children. so there is no MUST produce offspring if you marry.
ilikesky
@ilikesky (9)
• China
23 Feb 09
The responsibility to children scares me. I wonder could i become a qualified mom?
rsa101
@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
It is not MUST for you to get married if you are not yet ready to commit your life with someone. Well I guess it is but natural that your family is urging you to be married because as a family they want to see their grand son/daughter. But then you are not obliged to do so if you still not able to see "Mr. Right". One note, Mr. Right is never coming because there is no Mr. Right in this world. The Person you will love will have defects or something like that.
ilikesky
@ilikesky (9)
• China
23 Feb 09
Sometimes i wonder that i must responsible for could not finding MR.RIGHT. Am i finicky? But i just wanna a man, who is not too short, ambitious, plain,humorous. It doesn't matter if he don't have much money now. The important thing is we have somthings in common.
flagella08
@flagella08 (5065)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
getting married is really a tough choice. there are lots of consequences after. so if one thinks that he can't do it better not join the club or you'll end up being a loser. getting married for me means thinking pretty hard about it.
Galena
@Galena (9110)
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23 Feb 09
there's no MUST about it. we get married or we don't get married. marrying just to be married is stupid. of course you should find the person you want to be with first. if you haven't found that person then you've got no reason to get married. and even when you find that person, you can either marry or not marry.
underdogtoo
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
When people want to have a family and children they generally get married. This is very satisfying to everyone because both spouses have responsibilities and rights. Without marriage anyone can just walk out of the union and forget about their obligations. Cheers!!
ilikesky
@ilikesky (9)
• China
23 Feb 09
For me, i think that the reason why people get marry is love. Unfortunatly, many people get maarried for other reasons.
bbsr13
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
23 Feb 09
Hello! Yes,marriage is a must for every one of us.It fulfills the biological needs of both man and woman.So get yourself married at right time.thanx.