Can you love two people at the same time, romantically?

@stacyv81 (5903)
United States
February 23, 2009 10:33am CST
I say yes, however, I dont think you can be IN love with two different people at once, what do you think? DO you agree? Disagree? Why or why not?
6 responses
@eshaan (6188)
• India
26 Feb 09
i think NO...its not possible for your emotions to be equally loving and romantic with two people at the same time, becoz if the love is true, you cant have same intensity of love for different person. You cant be true to even one of them, this may lead to irritations and frustrations which is not good for healthy relatoinship.
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
10 Mar 09
I agree, good points!
@ibanag22 (35)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
i disagree on it because it cant be true love if ur not commited to one person. Just think it true and follow ur heart. Because u just might be confused with it one might just be a crush while the other is ur true love..
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
10 Mar 09
Right that sounds right, infatuation vs love...lol! Thanks for your comments!
@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
14 Mar 09
i think u can be infatuated but not in love... or even love to at a time but not IN love.
• United States
23 Feb 09
I would say yes you can, but I believe one would be true love and if there was another that would be lust. I think it would depend on the person though. Some people may be able to and some may not. I agree, I don't think you can be in love with more then one person at the same time.
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
10 Mar 09
They say infatuation feels a lot like love, so maybe one is love and one is infatuation, That sounds about right, because how could it be true love, if you love someone else...lol
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
No, of course not, you just cannot love the two person at the same time, that's absolutely impossible. You can only love one person at the same time, same as the principle of science that:we cannot stay in one place at the same time.
• India
23 Feb 09
i dont think so that loving two people at the same time is possible.. if you love someone then you are totally dedicated towards that person.. u cannot cheat a person if you are in love wid him/her.. trust is the main factor in a relationship and by going out with 2 persons at the same time, u are breaking your lover's trust.. so i totally disagree with it..
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
23 Feb 09
I agree with you, That is mostly if you are soley devoted to that person though, I mean like if you arent in a committed relationship and your heart is more open, then is it possible. Maybe not the right thing to do , but is it POSsible to love two people at the same time?