What would you do After 32 Years? Check out my crazy story!! Totally True!

@34momma (13920)
United States
February 23, 2009 2:39pm CST
For years, my brother, aunt, and I have been looking for my real father. My parents got divorced when I was about 5 or so. It was a relationship that ended really badly. Any, years went by and I always wanted to find him. To see if he was alive, or if i had siblings, whatever... when I was 14 my mother met the most amazing man in the whole world. He very quickly became my Daddy. what a wonderful man he was. The two of them were just so wonderful together and he really loved her so much. ten years later they both passed away. So anyway, a few weeks ago i am home doing much of nothing on a Sunday night. My brother calls me and says, you need to log into myspace right now. I am like why i don't even have a myspace. He is all freaked out saying so what just go on there right now. I do it, and then he says to put in his name. I do that and see a face that looks very familar to me. I clicked on it, and it was my face looking back at me. My brother has found our father on Myspace!!! After 32 years, there he was, right there online!! I was so shocked! i just knew it was him!! i knew it in my heart and soul!!! so being that my brother has a myspace, he sent this man with the face that looks like mine a note! At 5:30 in the morning my phone rings. It's my brother and he says he guess who i just talk to? me still sleeping said ummm do you know what time it is man??? he said oh come on guess!! LOL i said i am not guess this time of morning, tell me or I am hanging up!! He said he sis, say Hi to your father.... I then heard that face that use to put me to sleep in my dreams when I was a little girl... It was my Father!!! After 32 years and thousands of dollars spent, We found our father on myspace...... How would you want this story to end if it was you????
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13 responses
@nova1945 (1614)
• United States
23 Feb 09
I would want to connect asap if it were me. But also wonder why he has a Myspace account at his age. I thought that was a much younger crowd. I hope all works out really well for you and your brother. Good luck
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@34momma (13920)
• United States
23 Feb 09
you want to hear the crazy part about that. He said he was talking to his friends and that friday they said if you are really trying to find your children then you need to get a myspace page. he opened one on friday, and my brother found him that Sunday. now that's just crazy isn't. We have been looking for him for years, and trust me, he didn't have one before. so far things are going really well. we talk all the time getting to know each other. i am loving it
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@nova1945 (1614)
• United States
24 Feb 09
That is great. I'm really happy for you.
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@34momma (13920)
• United States
24 Feb 09
thanks Nova, things are going very well so far
@Darkwing (21591)
24 Feb 09
Oh, what a lovely story, and well done your brother for recognising him as your father. I'll bet it was a shock initially but it must have been wonderful to hear his voice again. I think the story is going to end exactly the way you want it to, or your father wouldn't have taken the trouble to contact you in the first place. As for me, I've never been in that situation but there's a young guy locally who just found his father after eighteen years. The hit it off just great, and he's found he has five step-brothers and sisters. I've never seen him look so happy as he does now, and that happened about a year ago. His life is fulfilled, at last, as I hope yours will be. You can't wipe the smile off his face, actually! lol. Brightest Blessings and all the luck in the world are wished for you and your brother, and of course your father. I hope you all find what you're looking for!
@34momma (13920)
• United States
24 Feb 09
so far the story is going really well. we talk, we email, and we even have a lot of the same things in common. we both like working online. he and my brother both have the same kind of passion for women, LOL
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@Darkwing (21591)
25 Feb 09
A chip off the old block your brother then, eh? lol. I'm so glad all's going well for you, my friend.
@Opal26 (17694)
• United States
24 Feb 09
Hey momma! OMG! That is so incredible! I have read that people have found people on myspace, but I only half believed it! How wonderful to find your Father after all those years and he is alive and well and to talk to him! I am so happy for you and your brother! What a wonderful thing to have happen for you both! I hope that the rest of the story will be as great as this beginning is! I hope that you are going to tell us that you will be seeing him soon! I know that this must be something that you truly never thought would happen after waiting and wondering for so long! I am so glad that your prayers were finally answered!
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@34momma (13920)
• United States
24 Feb 09
Hi opal, we are planning getting together before the summer is over. He lives in Germany so we are working on it all together. but yeah we talk every day. we have a lot of the same interested, it's just wonderful
@lovesummer (1162)
• Malaysia
23 Feb 09
is this really true? i think it is wonderful.. be with him take care of him if you want... give a happy ending no matter what..
@34momma (13920)
• United States
23 Feb 09
It is 100% true. we have been talking on the phone a few times a week. we email and IM. i am very happy. thanks for coming by with your response
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@SaintAnne (5454)
• United States
16 Mar 09
Hello Momma... seeing that this was posted about three weeks ago, I am curious to hear what other developments have happened between you, your brother and your dad. When I was reading your post, I was wondering if your dad was also doing the same thing those last 32 years and reading what you wrote back to another mylotter's response, I am quite glad and relieved that he was as well. I hope you and your brother get the answers that you have been asking all these years. Congrats and good luck!
@34momma (13920)
• United States
17 Mar 09
hey SaintAnne, things have been going really well so far. we talk to each other just about every day. we are working on having him come to the states in the next couple of months so he can meet his grandchildren. and of course to met me and my brother again after 32 long years.
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@SaintAnne (5454)
• United States
18 Mar 09
That is great news, Momma. More good times to come your way, okies!
@ahgong (10088)
• Singapore
16 Mar 09
Another example of the law of attraction! You found him finally after years of searching. And you wanted to meet up with him to catch up on things, right? Then end the story by setting up a meeting with him! What are you waiting for?!?
@34momma (13920)
• United States
16 Mar 09
oh we are working on that right now. he is making plans to come back to the states now. we talk just about every day. things are going really well
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@ahgong (10088)
• Singapore
17 Mar 09
Good for you! All the best to your meet up! Do update us yah?
@enola1692 (3325)
• United States
29 Apr 09
wow i can't believe I didnt read this post before today its great the way you found your dad an you were right WOW what a story
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@34momma (13920)
• United States
29 Apr 09
I know some story right!! we talk a few times a week, and I can't wait see him after all of these years
@Savvynlady (3686)
• United States
17 Mar 09
34Momma, I thought it had a bad ending. but the story is unique, no lie. I am sorry about the thousands spent though. But I am so glad that you found him and you speak and all. we all need our kin near us when we can. Isn't that smart of him to start up the MySpace page though? unique situation.
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@34momma (13920)
• United States
17 Mar 09
it really is just a wonderful blessing. I tell you things work out just the way they are suppose to work out. it is a great story and i am so happy about the whole thing.
@carolscash (9505)
• United States
24 Feb 09
How wonderful of a story! Also, how amazing that after all your searching, all you had to do was log into myspace. That is fabulous. Do you intend to meet him anytime soon? I hope so. I have to say that I would want a happy ending!
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@34momma (13920)
• United States
25 Feb 09
yes i am hoping that we will get together in the next couple of months. I mean i have not seen him since I was about 5, so i am looking forward to seeing him again really soon
@pratheep87 (1228)
• India
9 Jun 09
After 32 years i would have a family for me. i will the role model of the family snf guide everybody.
@imsilver (1670)
• Canada
8 Jun 09
That is so wonderful. How thrilling for everyone involved. The internet is so great. It makes the world so much smaller and it's so much easier to keep in touch. I'm so glad you got a chance to reconnect with your father.
@williamjisir (22912)
• China
8 Jun 09
Hello my dear friend. I read your personal experience with keen interest. The more I read, the more I want to read till the end of it. It is such a special experience of yours and so touching. While I feel so sorry for the loss of your dear mother as well as your stepfather, I am very happy that you have finally found your real father through myspace. Isn't it gorgeous and miraculous to have found your real father after 32 years! It is in total a wonderful ending of the story. Thank you so much for sharing, my dear friend. Enjoy your life, 34momma.
@disvachic (10125)
• United States
1 May 09
wow i didnt know!!wHERE HAVE i been obviously not here on mylot!Thats great news.I am so happy for you.I know it has to be a great feeling.I wish you and your father great bonding.YOU will be amazed at who you will find on myspace and facebook.