Character versus Physical Attraction???

@carrine (2749)
Philippines
February 24, 2009 7:00am CST
would you date someone who had all character traits you wanted but wasn't physically attractive to you? well its okay with me if hes not that really good looking as long as there is something in him that i like, maybe not his face, but i like the way he dressed up, or he smells good and so clean to look up.. that would be fine.. and character really matters on me.. i hate men if they were so arrogant, and too frank,, i dont like that. what about you? happy mylotting.
1 person likes this
7 responses
@checapricorn (16072)
• United States
24 Feb 09
[i]Hi carrine, I always count physical appearance! hahaha! I mean, not very handsome as long as there is some connection or attraction for me. I haven't tried dating someone whom I didn't have any feelings even for the first date....When someone is neat and clean, it always makes me see him as handsome! Cheers! LOL![/i]
@carrine (2749)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
hi che! yah same here, it counts a lot the looks for me. LOL like what theyve said: the attitude can be changed to manage, but looks never! LOL
1 person likes this
• United States
24 Feb 09
I agree with you but if the person has a very bad attitude, hmmm....no chance for me too! It should be balance!
@carrine (2749)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
yeah.. attitude really matters, and the brain.. hehehhe
@Dasari100 (3803)
• Anantapur, India
23 Apr 09
Character is always good than physical attraction but the thing and people follow the formula that is they get attract physical attraction so it should not be like that. I give and prefer character than physical attraction.
@carrine (2749)
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
well theres a saying : attitude can be change or disciple in some manners, however the physical appearance is expensive if you want to change it. so better choose the physical appearance. LOL actually its non sense. hahhaa
@carann (262)
• United States
23 Apr 09
I look at it this way. you see a handosme guy walk in with an average guy. After they speak though the handsome guy might not be so handsome anymore and the average guy might be more handsome. I count the type of person they are. the outside is nice but they do have to let there personality show sometime and it might not be so pretty.
@carrine (2749)
• Philippines
23 Apr 09
i agree with you. thanks for the response
@zandi458 (27954)
• Malaysia
25 Feb 09
Who cares if he is an ugly toad! as long as he can bring back the smiles in my face with his humorous personality I will always think he will be my prince charming. . A serious and nerd person is not my piece of bread.
@carrine (2749)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
nyahahahha zandi! i like your line, a serious and nerd person is not my piece of bread. its kinda new to me. LOL.. you are right humorous type of person is so nice to be with, they can make you smile, brighten your day.. its like you will forget all your worries your bringing.
@NaomiErin (389)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
I can't live with someone without the character traits I admire. Looks doesn't matter if you're old. Looks can wither as we age but the personality that we like in our partner stays. Besides, if your partner is very good-looking then you have a lot of rivals for him/her. ^_^
@carrine (2749)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
yes exactly, the rivalry... good luck! LOL
@mlw32785 (133)
• United States
24 Feb 09
hmm... this is great question.i think a nice balance would be preferable. i have found a lot of times that a great personality can make a person super attractive.i have met guys that weren't intially very cute but then i talked with them and got to know them and i was like wow! they really are interesting. i want to get to know them more. then on the other hand i have met guys that are very attractive and then when i got to know them i was like no way! their personality made them ugly.
@carrine (2749)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
actually ive experienced that one also.. on the first time of meeting this person, its like i dont like him, there is something on him that i dont like, but the next time you talk with them, its like, oh i think his okay or his nice, like what they said, "know me more before you think anything about me".. *smiles ... LOL very nice response
@modstar (9615)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
Ok so can we go out on a date now? Lol! Well, yeah! Why not? Her character alone is enough to impress me. I'm pretty sure we'll have a great conversation. I think that would be enough to make the day. I just hope that she's presentable enough.
@carrine (2749)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
naks! wanna date with me huh? JOKE.... presentable enough is the exact word really..