Who loves you more? Your father or mother?

@bdsurf (703)
February 26, 2009 12:39am CST
I think mother loves sons more and dad loves daughters more. I find it by experimenting on my friends. I have no daughter so my father don't have that chance. But I have a younger brother. I am sure that both of my father and mother loves me a lot. But i think my mother loves me more than my younger brother. The case is just opposite for my brother and he get all from my father. I get all type of facilities comparing my younger brother from my mother like extra transportation cost, new dess or time to work in PC. Similarly my brother get this from my father like more chocolates or time for playing. My father never tell anything to my younger brother. If I get low marks in exam he scolded me but when my younger directly fails in exam he don't tell him much. Might be my father got angry to me as he took care of my studies before and usually I keep my brother in more pressure for bad exam. So what happened to you? Who loves you more? Your father or your mother? Who get more benefits? You or your siblings?
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22 responses
• India
28 Feb 09
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i think both my father and mother love me a lot. its not fair that we compare their love. fathers dont show thier love like mothers so we might take it as he dont love you like the mother. if a good family setup both parents will love their children equally... and thats the way it should be.
@bdsurf (703)
23 Jun 09
I think you are right. They do not show impressions. But I am sure they have always weakness to the daughters more though they love a lot their sons also.
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@darksorrow (4671)
• Bangladesh
23 Jun 09
I am the only child of my parents. And i can say that my mother loves me more. And i also love her more. And about the benefits all is what i get since i am their only child.lol
@Canellita (12059)
• United States
27 Feb 09
Definitely my father, but just about everyone in the entire family still treats me like I am twelve years old, despite the fact that I am old enough to be a grandmother. Of course my younger brother can still do no wrong, but that's the way families are, right? You get over it and get on with your life.
@cindyhxf (1447)
• China
27 Feb 09
i am female,people said daughter was lover for father pre-existence.aha,i think my father loved me more than my mother my childhood.i have brother and sister.i felt my mother loved my brother than my sister and i.but after i grow up till now,i want to talk more with my mother.she is good listner ,something i told with her i felt safely
• India
27 Feb 09
Most of us feel that mother loves sons more and dad loves daughters more. But i dont think that it is true. This is my opinion. I didnt see anyone like that. Both the parents love their children equally. But mothers show their love outside and fathers dont express it out. But they do love their children equally. Only the expression is different. In my family everyone is equally loved by my parents. But i can say one thing that younger children get more attention from their parents as they are younger and older dont get that much attention because they are older than the other. Thats the only difference.
@babyorchid (1739)
• China
27 Feb 09
yes, i think so. mum cares sons more and dad loves daugthers more. i am a girl.my dad loves me much,but my mum cares much to my brother.that's it. but if i have to answer who i love more, i think i gonna answer, my mum. my dad always meet my demands by giving me money or try his best to offer wt i wanna. but my mum never did these. she taught me a lot about life. whenever i wanna something, she will ask why. she is very strict with me. as she said u have to learn indepence, learn to walk urself, bcz we can't accompany u whole life. she never stasfy my some unreasonable requests. but i love her a lot, it's she teaches me so much, it's she who raise me the personality of never give up.. happy mylotting
• United States
27 Feb 09
I think to say that a parent loves one child more than the other is very wrong. A parents love is one of a kind and should never be compared to any other love...not even questioned about who they love more. I can honestly say I have a sister and my parents loved both of us and I am sure equally. I think each child should cherish the special things they have with each parent...I don't think the fact that one of your parents may have more things in common with you or your sibling says they love either one more than the other. These special things...whether they be spending time talking, helping, shopping, etc...should just be cherished and chalked up to just having more interest in common...not love. I seriously have a problem with this...both of my parents have passed away in the past 5 years and the last thing I would ever think is that just cuz my mom talked to me about more things or we enjoyed shopping more together than her shopping with my sister would say she "loved me more". A parents love is unconditional!
@zhuuraan (967)
• United States
27 Feb 09
My mom loves me more without a doubt, because I have never known my father! We tried to get in touch with him once and do a paternity test, but they screwed it up and he wouldn't retest. Stupid idiot! Obviously doesn't give a rat's behind about his daughter!
• United States
27 Feb 09
uhm i think im a daddy's girl. my father calls me princess and lets me do pretty much anything i want to do. it's a little different though ith my younger sister. she doesn't get as any privledges, because she behaves bad and sneaks out. my mom does too. shes kind of a little more up tight, and lectures me.
@mimico (3619)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
I would like to think that they both love me a lot. When I was in my teen years, I thought my dad loved me more but then I realized that my mom loves me just as much. She was there to support me during the toughest days of my life while my dad was less connected and less emotional. Anyway, my siblings and I are all equally loved and for that I am really, really grateful. :)
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
26 Feb 09
growing up my dad def. loved all of us more...now my mom has grown up and really has proved she loves us as well..it's hard to say but when it comes down to it i think my dad has always been there for us and always will. n that's true for all of us boy n girls. but my mom def. loves her grandkids more than her own kids lol! my brother (only one) has gotten the most from my mom...my dad's always been fair..no one gets anything lol!
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
26 Feb 09
yeah its true...when i was younger i used to think my mom..doesnt love me..but my father show his love to me..but now that i have kids 1 boy and 1 girl.. i try to show my love to both of them so they wont think the way i did before..have a nice day
@annjilena (5621)
• United States
26 Feb 09
they both should love the same.i think some parents have picks between their kids.i have experienced this all my life.it shouldn,t be this way but it do happen.i have never felt love from my mother are father they just didn,t show love amongst many of there 11 children.they had picks between us.
• China
26 Feb 09
It is hard to say my father or mother loves me more.In fact,both of them love me the same.My mother shows her love to me for what she has done to me in my life and my father expresses his love by teaching me how to be independent.Love your parents as well please.Enjoy your day!Haha...
@gracie04 (4556)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
I guess my mother loves me more.. even if i have made a lot of mistakes in my life my mom is still there to give her love and support.. dad? maybe he loves me but i just can't feel it.. it's like he doesn't care that much.. he knows i've been sick(diabetes) which i've inherited from him but he doesn't give financial support.. and you know what, when after i've been confined in the hospital for four days, my dad was doubtful of the hospital bills i've presented to him.. that's terrible! i mean, the hospital can't do cheating... it just proves that he doesn't care about his own family at all but when it comes to his siblings? he's always been playing like the santa, totally unfair.. i hope dad that would realize our worth.. but of course in spite of that, i still love him..
• China
26 Feb 09
I can not say whether my mom or my dad loves me more. They paid a lot of attentions to me and my little sister. My parents would like to give us the equal love. But there is a point: if one of us does not live together with my parents, who will enjoy more concerns when she get home. Hah, I only go home once or twice a year, so my sister complained that mom and dad are show more patience to me. It's really fun.
@lingli_78 (12852)
• Australia
26 Feb 09
i think my parents love me equally and unconditionally... but i can say that i am much closer to my dad rather than my mum... i can talk to him and tell him all my problems and he can understand how i feel... he can give me good advice and comfort as well when i need it... he can understand me better than my mum... that's why i am much closer to him... take care and have a nice day...
@bamrahkirti (1819)
• India
26 Feb 09
Well i am loved both by my mother and father.I have a younger brother who is a darling of everybody including me and i have always treated him like my son because he is 8 years younger to me.I think my mother loves me the most.She is more expressive and vocal about her feelings towards me .My father is a bit introvert and does not open up easily but i still remember the time when we used to go to school and he would iron our school dress,polish our shoes,make breakfast and do our hair.I am very proud to have them as my parents. So you can conclude that both my parents are very adoring,loving and caring and very-very fond of their children.
@ktosea (2027)
• China
26 Feb 09
well,it's difficult to tell who love me more and who love me less.I think they all love me,but in only in different ways
• Malaysia
26 Feb 09
i think my mom loves me more than my dad. i know they both love me so much as i am the youngest in my family.but my mom loves me more i guees..i dont know why,probably because she is the closes person to me and i share everything with her and look for her if i need any help.