A question for the girls.....

United States
November 10, 2006 1:08am CST
Do you think some of the guys on MyLot are here to FLIRT or to have ACTUAL DISCUSSIONS with the girls here?
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10 responses
@kylesmiles (1916)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Either way, I don't mind... LOL I am married and I am not looking. If they are here to flirt, good for them, I don't mind either way. Everyone has a reason for being here on mylot. I respect that. :)
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• United States
26 Nov 06
That's a good way to keep from getting annoyed-I should just stop reading those kinds of threads and stick to the discussions/questions that interest me. But sometimes I do go to them to just have a laugh :OD Heehee...
• United States
22 Nov 06
I've never ran into a guy that DIDN'T flirt, but that doesn't mean they are trying to hook up or whatever. Most of the time, it seems like innocent fun. Besides, half the people on here are from the other side of the world--- its not like we are all going to meet up or something!
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• United States
26 Nov 06
Yeah, I think most of it is harmless flirting, but I do think that if a guy sees any opening to flirt that might lead to some "online action" he jumps all over it. It's just pathetic.
• Singapore
10 Nov 06
I've never met a guy who wasn't online to flirt. X3
• United States
13 Nov 06
I've seen a few who didn't "take the bait" when those girls started those posts asking "Would You Marry Me?" Those girls are just ASKING for guys to post things to flirt (they know it's a fast cheap way that they'll get alot of posts) But, you're right....most guys are online to flirt.
@dixielol (1581)
• United States
19 Nov 06
Yeah, you are right about the ones that keep posting the "am i pretty" "would you marry me" qustions. They are getting pretty old by now. Some of the answers are funny though. If you look through them, alot of ugly guys say "your beatufill" "id marry you" but then a hot guy will say "no your ugly." It kind of turns it around on them. Cause they are expectin alot of compliments. Im not sure if alot of the guys are online to flirt or to talk. Seems like the mature ones are here to talk more though. Most of the ones that flirt are probably teenagers.
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@Aeval39 (774)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Aurr, nicely put. xD I think the girls are def. asking for it. "DO U THINK IM SMEKSY!?"
@hm1177 (1223)
26 Nov 06
there are here to flirt. Its like a meat market
• United States
26 Nov 06
It IS like a meat market!
@TRAK77 (202)
• United States
26 Nov 06
I think the main reason people are here is to make some money. if flirting makes the discussion better and last longer then more money can be made right/ So flirt away as long as you keep talking.
• United States
26 Nov 06
Good point;) I just wouldn't want the flirt chats replacing the actual conversations.... I'd definitely find another site then.
26 Nov 06
there will always be opportunists! I am sure some of the girls are here for the same things too!
• United States
26 Nov 06
That's true.... The girls who come for that are most likely the ones who post the "Am I Pretty" and "Would You Marry Me?" posts. And they are SO boring! The threads look like this: "Would you marry me?" "Yeah, you're hot...." "Maybe, but first I'd have to get to know you." "Yes" "Yeah!" BOOOOORING.
@smughal (1028)
• Pakistan
22 Nov 06
yeah guys can flirt anywhere..:p personally i havnt seen any guy flirting here. becuase we all r from different countries so i think there r less chances for guys to flirt
• United States
26 Nov 06
That's true, there is little to no chance anyone ever meets up, but I've still seen alot of the guys either talk about it and sort of fantasize about it-I think they look for girls who'll kind of "indulge" in that fantasy. And if you haven't seen any flirting here, check out more forums-they're everywhere! lol
@xterxter (22)
• United States
13 Nov 06
if you come online to flirt then you are one fat ugly person but yea i'm not a girl
• United States
14 Nov 06
LOL I'm sure some of them are, but I think guys online (or at least most of the ones I've seen on MyLot) jump at any chance to flirt with any girl they can.
• Indonesia
10 Nov 06
I am not a girl so I can't help sorry
• United States
13 Nov 06
So, Mercury, being a guy, do you flirt or have you ever flirted online?
@smughal (1028)
• Pakistan
22 Nov 06
yeah guys can flirt anywhere.. :p personally i havnt seen any guy flirting here..