hows you feel when somebody(trusted) people lost your trust??

@yadav8797 (1211)
India
February 28, 2009 12:24am CST
hey friends, i feel very very bad when the people which i have trusted most broken my trust. its a painful feeling for me.then i decided to not trust on anybody.but my heart allow to trust on other for think that this will not repaet again with me. friend, hows your feeling when same thing happen with you?? whats the solution for that?? is this right to not trust on anybody??
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10 responses
• United States
2 Mar 09
i think you need to be able to trust some one but if some one breaks my trust i will likely not trust that person again because they may do it again
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
28 Feb 09
this is a hard question.because it is hard to answer.it depends on what case we meet.someone trust people so easily and they don't doubt much others.their values tell them to think like that!if someone lost my trust,for me,it is hard to trust again.maybe i will try to trust.but still have doubt in my heart i am sure.so don't let others lost your trust if you care that one.
• Singapore
28 Feb 09
Someone I deeply trusted betrayed my trust recently. I was devastated. I was very hurt by what he did. However, he has shown signs of remorse and willing to make amends. As such I willing to trust him back again. It's going to be difficult though. There will be times when I will question him, but he has to accept the fact that he needs to make me trust him again. He has to work at it.
• Philippines
28 Feb 09
Having been cheated by the person you trust the most is really devastating for me. I would prefer being cheated by someone whom I don't trust at all but with someone that I really rely on and trusted my life for would be a slap on my face. I am a person who have a hard time giving my trust back to someone who have proven to be mot worthy trusting for.
@clickicy (571)
• Indonesia
28 Feb 09
hi, i belive that forgiving is the only way... gaining friend that never make mistake is unachieveable goal... it is completely human to make mistake... yes the damage of betrayel sometimes become a life time unease memory... yet as a human we need to move on. to heal the effect of broken thrus is by forgiving - it will be hard way but shall give the best result.
@MichGurl (144)
• United States
28 Feb 09
I look at it like this, I trust everyone 100% and it's up to them as to what they do with my trust. But if its lost, it is never gotten back. Hurt me once, shame on you, but hurt me twice, shame on me!
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
28 Feb 09
yes hon you are doing the right thing, do you will trust again when the time is right for you to do so. I am the same way it hurts and then I get over it and I trust again only I am more careful of who I trust now.
@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
28 Feb 09
Hey.. Nikky is right. It's really hard to trust again to a people who you trusted and he or she broke it. But as she said, if not intentionally then we can give them a chance because we all know that everybody make a mistakes and not perfect. Well it happens on me also. Since that i never trust her to share my thoughts and secrets anymore. But still i spoke to her. And not like before that i shared everything. SInce that happen, i'll be picky to have a real friends.
@nikky28 (1572)
• India
28 Feb 09
Gaining one's trust is difficult but keeping it that way is more difficult. When someone is trusted it means that the person has a responsibility of staying trustworthy. It does hurt when someone whom you trust breaks it. It is very difficult for me too to trust that person again. I wouldn't say that we should stop trusting everybody because sometimes everyone makes mistakes and we are human and it is our prerogative to err. If someone breaks trust unintentionally then, I think it is okay to forgive them and offer a second chance. Have a nice day!
• Indonesia
28 Feb 09
Well, I will feel the same for you. Sometime i will feel very depressed for about to a week. When I think about stop trusting anyone, i rememberred theres no way you cant live without somebody to trust. Maybe you should think about their reason breaking your trust, maybe there is something you cant understand about them. And also its better to keep believing on other, because every people is different from another people.