why do you think people feel the need to be rude?

@jhl930 (3601)
United States
February 28, 2009 3:32pm CST
i have saw this a lot these days when people are out in public they feel the need to be rude and be hateful with people, and i really can't understand why they are like that because being rude has never once helped me in any way and i don't really see how it helps anyone else, but i was just wondering if anyone on here can tell me why they think that it helps anyoen else to be rude with others in todays world, anyone got any ideas? i would like to take this time to thank everyone that has taken time out of their day to come by and read my discussion and hopefully provide an answer for my discussion, i hope that you all have a great and happy weekend, thanks once again for taking the time to come by and happy mylotting!
3 responses
@benny128 (3615)
28 Feb 09
well i guess some people are brought up to be polite and respectful and some people aren't, in my line of work I meet alot of people online and off line and some parents dont give a hoot about their kids. So to the people who are rude I guess its what they are used too. Personally a please and thank you goes a long way maybe I am just old fashioned openning doors for people and giving my seat up on trains or buses. But if everyone had manners the world would be a far better and nicer place to live.
@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
28 Feb 09
i think that it would also be a nicer place to live if more people had manners and treated people with resepct, i think that we would all enjoy life more! thanks for replying!
• United States
28 Feb 09
I learned long ago that a little politeness will get me a long way. Why others don't feel that way is hard to understand some people they go out of their way to start fighting with another person. I think some just have bad attitudes and maybe a little paranoia along with it. Some people are just jerks.
@ravend (659)
• Malta
28 Feb 09
Usually I find out that people are rude because they either feel inferior or else are unable to form a decent argument. Some also associate politeness and good manners with snobbishness, and think that manners aren't for them.