What if your former boy/girlfriend has found out about your new girlfriend then told you...

@modstar (9616)
Philippines
March 2, 2009 5:59pm CST
In a lauging manner, "is he/she all you can get after me?" as if implying that he/she is hotter/goodlooking than your new boy/girlfriend. Conditions: Your former boy/girlfriend is obviously hotter/goodlooking. Your new boy/girlfriend eventhough not hot, but is a man/woman of substance/smart/etc except he/she is not hot.
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@kissie34 (2296)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
Well, even though no matter what my ex say I will just ignore him. I will tell him all the good quality that he don't have with my new boyfriend so that he will realize that he's wrong on the way his thinking about his self. Of course, I will be proud to let him know everything about my new boyfriend and I'm going to slap in his face that my new boyfriend is 101% better than him. Its not that I'm comparing my new boyfriend to him but I'll just going to let him know that he should laugh my new boyfriend. At least even though my new boyfriend isn't hot and good looking as him, he is more better than him since he is smart/intelligent. What will I get with a guy who is good looking/hot if he doesn't have a brain and I will just keep on having so many problems with other girls?? At least with a men who is smart and nice person I know that he will love me and I will be happy with him..
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
Actually, i'm goodlooking and i have a brain. Lol! Just kidding! Yup, a person of substance is more impressive.
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@kissie34 (2296)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
Well, there's nothing wrong if you are proud of your self and besides you must be proud of your self inside or outside looks.. As for me, I don't like my boyfriend to be so brainy because people who are so intelligent are boring.. I'm lucky that my boyfriend isn't boring to be with.. Well, his not the most intelligent person in our school but he is a man of substance.. I love everything about him inside and outside.. I'm just too proud to have him..
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
I'm proud of you. Just keep it up kiss. Still a long way to go.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
I won't care! It's so what after all were finished. What is important is that I love her more then you, and I don't mind your business.Well it's better to be honest, then treating her nice after telling me that. She doesn't have the right to insult my girlfriend, it's like she's perfect and no one is perfect in this world. So what if my gf now is not that pretty as her, but what is important is my feelings. If she thinks that she can get my attention, sorry to say she not, and that will be the last time I'll talk to her and burned the bridges. It's my life and it's my decision, and no one else. Have a nice day to you!
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@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
You're right. When we are in love, insults to our girlfriend is one thing we can't accept. That's true, i guess all she can do is move on and just mind her own business.
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
You're right. When we are in love, insults to our girlfriend is one thing we can't accept. That's true, i guess all she can do is move on and just mind her own business.
@hanasays (212)
• United States
3 Mar 09
Tell them "Yeah, I got ALL THAT after you. I can't believe it, either. Isn't he/she amazing? And to think I stayed with you for so long..." Also that there is more than one form of beauty, and not all beauty is physical. I'd rather date a not-as-hot nice guy than a really hot jerk. Looks fade when you get old, after all.
@hanasays (212)
• United States
3 Mar 09
I'd also like to add: if they had to say something like that, then they obviously feel threatened by your new boyfriend/girlfriend. Probably because they know that they may be hotter, but the other person has important qualities that they lack.
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@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
I couldn't agree more. You've explained it well. You're right when you said the they're just threatened. They must have realized that they're losing you more.
@razcal2267 (15577)
• United States
4 Mar 09
What if? I would actually laugh in the old boyfriends face and tell him jealously is part of what makes him so ugly. Looks are important to some extent but do you really want to be with someone just because of how they look? I know I don't and don't really care what people (including an ex) think of hot good looking or not someone I am with is.
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
3 Mar 09
I would simply smile and say, "My new boyfriend/girlfriend are hotter in ways you could not even imagine." Then I'd walk away and let them digest the meaning. Being a person of substance/smart/witty, etc. can be hotter than anything as fleeting as surface beauty. The hottest part of a person is what you DON'T see.
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
...While wearing pants? Lol! Of course, the intangibles.
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
4 Mar 09
You are silly and that's what I like about you...lol. Lets rethink this question in about 40 years when you're baggy, saggy & grey...lol
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
Now tell me, Sharon Stone was still hot when she was 40. Increase it to 75! Hehe..
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@JenInTN (27565)
• United States
3 Mar 09
Hi modstar! In that situation..I would just smile. There is obviously a reason why they need to feel "better" than the one you are with. They know. It's a pride thing. The one thing they do know is your not with them.
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
That's true. The ego is hurting.
@razcal2267 (15577)
• United States
4 Mar 09
Very well said
@JenInTN (27565)
• United States
4 Mar 09
Thanks
@dismalgrin (2470)
• United States
3 Mar 09
Or you could say 'I'm all they could get, after you!' Implying that you were hurt greatly by how they treated you, and you are greatful that this person took you as you were. Haha. I don't know. I usually cut my ties pretty clean with exes. Haha. So, they don't really know about who I'm with or what I'm doing now.
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
You're one of the few who can do that. I can't. Maybe i haven't moved on totally.
• United States
3 Mar 09
I find it easier to get over someone if I cut all ties to them. Because I don't have to talk to them and hash over why they did what they did. Right now I'm dealing with a difficult situation, because he dumped me but won't let me cut ties. So, I'm kind of left hanging in the hurt and pain mode, not able to move on, but not able to stay in the relationship either.
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
Don't he dare say that to me... or else I would humiliate him for doing that! Even my new BF is not hotter than him... I'll make sure his better than him in other aspects... People are different form one another so don't somebody dare to ask that question to me...
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
Oh my God! Sorry i asked! I didn't mean to upset you. Nice photo btw!
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
You didn't upset me.... It's just my opinion regarding your post! Those kind of people who have too much confidence and felt like they are perfect are the ones who doesn't deserve to be treated good...
@Theresaaiza (9677)
• Australia
4 Mar 09
I'd probably say "Oh he's okay. He's the version with the brains.", or I'd probably just zip my mouth.LOL If my ex would say that, I'd realize all the more what a good decision it was to get off that relationship.
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
Won't you feel like you have settled for someone less? Like a downgrade?
• Australia
6 Mar 09
I hope it would make my ex wonder what he didn't have that my newie has, despite his belief that he has everything. Well, anyway, I'll just leave him to whatever he thinks. He's entitled to his own opinion.
@Lore2009 (7389)
• United States
3 Mar 09
I actually would like to say that to my ex but because he obviously went after for her looks and not her personality.
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
Well he's in for a lot of trouble for taking that path.
@Lore2009 (7389)
• United States
3 Mar 09
Thanks, that's nice.
@LittleMel (14059)
• Canada
4 Mar 09
I will tell them 'yep, finally I found the treasure I've been looking for! my life is now free of junks' I never had serious relationship before I met hubby but now I'm glad I didn't spend too much of my time with 'junks'
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
You owned a "junk" shop before and now you own a goldmine.
@bombshell (11268)
• Germany
3 Mar 09
even you laughed at your gf or bf still realized that you are lying.so you better till the truth