Should married men go to strip clubs?

United States
March 3, 2009 4:00pm CST
Do you think Married men should go to strip clubs? I don't think they should. I only think married men should see their wife undressed only and not other women be undressed. So what are your thoughts on this subject? Do you think it's wrong for married men to stare at other naked women other then their wife or see other women taking their clothing off?
3 responses
@bs1958 (12)
• Germany
3 Mar 09
In German we say: He can get the appetite outside, but he has to eat at home. I think it don't makes a difference wether he see it in clubs or in nearly each film or each series on tv. Love is based on confidence and not on control.
• United States
3 Mar 09
I have a bible verse for this. MATHEW 5:28 "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." You can not have confidence for a man that looks at other women. But men that look only on their wife, you can have confidence in. Being completely faithful is not control. It's love!
@jesssp (2743)
• Canada
3 Mar 09
I go to the strip club with my fiance and our friends quite often. It doesn't bother me if he goes with me but I admit it would make me uncomfortable if he went without me. He respects that and he doesn't go if I don't. I don't think it's necessarily wrong for a married man to go but I do think it's wrong for him to go if it makes his wife uncomfortable. If she's fine with it then that's all that matters. As long as they only look with their eyes and not their hands then I see no harm!
• United States
3 Mar 09
But what is the point of him going there? What does he get out of it? Does it make him happy? Does it thrill him to see cute girls not wearing that much or anything at all? Does it make you feel great to see these women coming near him or him looking at them? I can't believe it doesn't bother you at all. Why do you go with him? To make sure he is being good? Or do you like looking at the girls too? Just wondering. Don't get mad.
@snowcat46 (2323)
• United States
3 Mar 09
It doesn't really bother me. He only goes when a group of guys are taking a newbie out. He just goes to be sociable. As far as he's concerned,they're just working girls. They have a job to do. He's pretty laid back about things.
• United States
3 Mar 09
Well I don't believe married men belong in strip clubs. Strip clubs are for men to look at women and those kind of women are sleazy and don't care about Morals. They have no morals. Don't trust those kind of women and believe me a married man going to strip clubs does not have respect for their wife or for themselves. And they lack morals too. some of them even take you to a back room all alone with no one there. Women that act this way and take their clothes off disgrace themselves and a real man that loves his wife won't go to a strip club....period! Money is not more important then self respect. These kind of people have no self respect and don't respect other people as well!