How would you react, if ur best friend is having a relationship with your bf/gf?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
March 4, 2009 1:46am CST
Maybe if it will happen to me, it wont be very easy to accept the situation, especially they are both special people in my life. The first question that will be in my mind is how could they do this to me, after believing them trusting them this will happen.But for sure I'll be seeing them both and be talking to them to finalized everything. I don't know if I can forgive them and just forget everything that fast. But for sure after talking to them I will not be a friend to them anymore just for me to move on easily. I just wish them the happiness that should be mine with my girlfriend. That's ouch! Have a nice day to all of you!
7 responses
@vivian642008 (71)
• China
9 Mar 09
i will send my link to you: www.mylot.com?ref=vivian642008
wish you happy every day!
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
4 Mar 09
That would hurt me immeasurably and i donno if i could ever forgive them. Well i knw i wont b able to and i wont even take their answers either, i knw thats not the right approach to do, but i wnt b in their lives again....
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
It's the same thing with me. After trusting my best friend, after loving my girlfriend, is this what I deserve that the happiness should be mine. They really made me stupid after all. The wounds will heal but it will take a matter of time, and forgetting will take memories always so it's what for continuing the friendship between them. It's enough that there happy together. Have a nice day to you!
@vivian642008 (71)
• China
4 Mar 09
you should be glad, for she/he is just your gf/bf. if she/he is your wife or your husband. so that's sad, isn't it?
wish happy!
@lucy19851120 (261)
• China
4 Mar 09
hehe,i uasally heared of that ,but no more to happen to me ,and if the story performanced in the tv set happened to you,we should react it well,and decrease the sowrrowful at the least degree,i think if the things happened to u,grab your bf/gf,the very best is to bless them,after a very long time ,you may understand that any love can be respected with pure heart just of r love ,if the love cann't be accepted ,because of the unsuitable time,love is survied everywhere,we all hope the love feeling will not change time to time ,but in fact it will,so when the wet day comes,just face it derectly,or scape it,the one who belong to you,he or she will come to you,if not,anyway she or he will gone.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
Well for me it could happen,not only on just tv novelas but in real life. If it doesn't happen to you your lucky. For me if I cross that bridge, it wont be easy for the three of us to go on with friendship. It will take time to heal the wounds and forget what had happen. Maybe in time I will just be happy for both of them but to trust them again I don't think so. I'll just move on and find the right one for me, and find another best friend who can be honest with me. Have a nice day to you!
@leoliu39 (540)
• China
4 Mar 09
yes, it's hard for one to accept this situation.but for someone has this problems, he(she) must accept and understand this.to be frankly, if ur best friend is haveing a relationship with your bf/gf,that means you are not the mr.right or miss right for them.maybe your partner is on the corner just over ther. don't be so agressive and relax, it'll be better off!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
If I cross that bridge, for sure I'll be hurt, accepting the happiness that should be mine will take me time to accept, the wounds should be healed first before I can forget, then just pretending it's just fine with me. I'll move on, and just be on my on but not sulking in one corner but improving myself.Have a nice day to you!
@candy811123 (334)
• China
4 Mar 09
It is really a thing that could drive one nuts.If it happened to me I could not accept it at once.But as the time goes on, maybe I could take them as my friend also. Just to imagine I am not sure my reaction if it happen to me.In any case,Good luck and happy mylotting.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
If ever I cross that bridge maybe I'll just have to accept it, but I'll let go of them and move on. It wont be easy to pretend that I could accept it in just one night. I will just heal the wounds first and just try to forget everything. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
