Are you a GOOD.... SPEAKER or LISTENER???

Singapore
March 5, 2009 10:06am CST
Im actually more on good listener. So if you want to talk with me, share your ideas and problems, you can come to me, because i really listen to you. Hehehe... But its true! And i just want to tell you that to be a good listener, you must be a patient person... A good listener will wait patiently until come the time she must speak and i know that im belong to this group. Most of the person who is a good speaker, she or he is more dominant, for me they just want to own everything because they have so many things to say, and i can listen to them, but if too much and the information is useless for me, i can pretend to listen, but actually my mind is out somewhere over the rainbow. hehehe Yes, i found that most person who are really speaker, they tend to monopolize the conversation, they always have bunch of information- the important and unimportant ones. Hehehe... Which one are you belong to? Here, in this mylot, we talk a lot but the talk is in written communication, and im not the person who is really aggresif for oral communication. I can be very talkative if i meet person who has the same interest with me, in this case i can relate many things i know, and im not really good for general conversation which is too broad until such time there;s nothing to be talked after. I may feel uneasy and will ask myself, what is the nice topic for our conversation? hahaha
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6 responses
@tops76 (289)
• India
7 Mar 09
good listener.
• China
6 Mar 09
I thought i am a good speaker but i find i am good at listen too. when someone were talking,i was carefull listening to,but a moment late,i would add him or she chat.lol
@jolope (987)
• Philippines
5 Mar 09
i think im a little bit of both but more on the listening part.. the fact that i like writing makes me a good speaker, i guess..but its really hard for me to explain myself.. i do like giving out advices though..weird ones and serious one..hehe but for the listening part..i really enjoy it when people open up to me..i feel like i can be trusted..and yes, i dont really blurt out secrets..at least those that are not mine..hehe
@ElicBxn (63194)
• United States
6 Mar 09
I'm not such a good listener any more. I find I like to talk too much!
• Philippines
5 Mar 09
I think I am a good listener. I tend to listen more oftenly to my friends rather than speaking a lot. If they ask for some advice or anything that might be of interest, then that's the time I would start to talk.
• India
5 Mar 09
I can be a good listener if someone talks to me about something what I am interested in, otherwise I switch off. I have seen some people who cannot resist the temptation to tune out others and start talking. But I am not like that. I think if you are not a good listener how can you respond someone in an intelligent manner? So, most of the time I prefer to be a silent spectator when others are talking. But that does not mean that I am not a good speaker. I love to speak when I know that the listeners are not getting bored and they have interest on what I'm saying.