March 7, 2009 1:06pm CST
few days ago i was reading an article about dating.so there was a paragraph in it which said that women do give some hints or you can say an indication to men when they like someone but most of the time men don't really catch it...is it true? so i just wanted to know that when you meet someone for the first time or may be few times how could you catch that signal from women(whether positive or negative) if there is any...
9 Mar 09
It is absolutely true...Woman do say things between the lines so to speak. The trouble is that men are so busy sizing the women up, that they dont hear what they are saying All you have to do is listen. Pay attention to what she says. Dont be afraid to ask questions. You will get the answers eventually
9 Mar 09
Wow, the men here are shy. But it is true. As a women I have tried to send out signals in the past. Especially when I was still young, in the school days. But, it was like I was being ignored. I only get heard when I don't mean anything. Like this one time: I was with a girl friend of mine. I had just gotten divorced and had visited family in Canada. I had slept in so many beds. Meaning by myself, but in different beds during my stay. I am with my friend in a bar. (Being married for 9 years, I was not used to being in a bar or going out to a disco ect) I was telling her about my adventure in Canada. Then I said I had been having troubles when I wake up. Because after a while I did not now where I was waking up, I had slept in so many different beds. At the time I said this to her, she kicked me. I did not get it. Then I started again, and she kicks me again. There was a man sitting on the other side of me. He was happy to hear I was sleeping in so many beds. He figured he had a chance. An easy women! He was looking funny at me! I cannot help you on the how to catch the signal from a women. Sorry. But, I think a man with your looks and character should not have much of a problem with getting a nice women. Just don't be shy, no need to be shy. I don't think the women in India are shy? Take care, good luck.
10 Mar 09
hi, certainly they are not shy anymore...but i'm the one whose always tries run away from them sometimes...but seriously saying most of the time i find it quite difficult to understand what exactly a woman is saying or interested in ...
10 Mar 09
That is very natural. Do you think women understand men? No, believe me, it is normal. There is a book called: " Men come from Mars and women come from Venus." This book tries to explain the differences between men and women. hahaha! Scientifically it is a fact that men and women think different. You could call it a cat and dog thing. I think that is what makes relationships worth while. If men and women understand everything about each other, it would get boring. This leaves for more action. I Think so. Take care.
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5 May 09
well how do you know if she's into you? you mean short of tackling you to the floor and kissing you?? no I'm only joking. :) Well for me I tend to play with my hair or touch my face if I'm into a guy, don;t know why, it's just something I do subconsciously. I really do believe there is someone for everyone in this world, and I don't know you personally but I think you seem like an ok guy. the fact that you even care enough to want to get to know 'us' strange beings known as women earns you major kudos in my opinion. you will find that someone I'm sure of it, just listen and if she's into you, you will know.
5 May 09
Honestly speaking I would love to sit in the corner where there were women in a room with quite a few handsome hunks.why? just because i would love to watch them without disturbing their activities. And if i am not wrong then i am sure will find quite a few astonishing facts and findings about the strangest people on earth who have landed here millions of years ago from the planet Venus... thank god i am just another okay type person on the planet otherwise i would have robbed time and again by the women...i am just scared about them with quite a few myths and some nasty experiences...I would prefer to be a loner than finding that match for me...