The first to move on..

Philippines
March 8, 2009 7:52pm CST
How true is it that the first one to move on is the one who broke it up with you.. and the last person to move on was the one being left.. Is it always like this? Has it become true to you?
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
I think it depends there are people who love but let go of it, and it takes them time to heal the wounds, and they are the last people to move on, and having a hard time to forget. It's a case to case basis. Have a nice day to you!
@lonmar71 (89)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
i really had a hard time when my ex-boyfriend broke off with me simply because i was still in love with him that time. it took me a lot of determination and courage to move on. the journey wasn't easy but looking back i realize that i deserve a much better guy. a guy who will sincerely love me, who will fight for that love and stood by me through thick and thin.
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
It depends on how you react and what you gonna do after the break up. It is not easy to be in a broken relationship. Time, Love and memories were shattered so even the one who broke the relationship will also finds time to move on.
@pukaprat2 (442)
• United States
9 Mar 09
i think alot of it depends on the situation. I my self have been dumped and have done the dumping. But take this moment from my life. My ex whom I lived with said he loved me but wasn't in love with me. after a day or two he still wanted to sleep with me. and we carried on like we were still together. then I made the decision to pack my things and go. I left a month later. still talking to him he found someone and was dating her. mind you this was 2 months after I had left. Didn't hear from him again. but I didn't care. my life took me to many places I could have only dreamed about if I were to stay with him and he wouldn't have found his wife with me around.- that's right they are now married. which is great that was what was ment to happen the only thing i regret is waiting so long to do it. But I guess life has a funny way of pulling you back like a rubber band before it can send you out to make an impact.
@csrobins (1120)
• United States
9 Mar 09
Not always true. I was broken up with two summers ago by my boyfriend of six months. To be clear, i did actually say "let's break up" but that's because he left me no choice and did not care at all anymore. I thought after I said that my life would be over but I got a really cool internship and moved on with my life even better than when I was with him. Eventually he tried to get back with me saying things I know are sincere becauase he was truly remorseful of how he has treated me and admitted he couldn't see his life without me. Fortunately though, I had moved on and was dting someone within a month of us breaking up and didn't want anything to do withhim, otherswise I probably would have a sucker and taken the jerk back.
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
not all the time i broke up with my bf but its me who move on last.....
• China
9 Mar 09
i was the one who left first