Is this girl using me? Is she messed up? Or am i an idiot?

@Ted3_uk (114)
March 11, 2009 4:45am CST
I recently meet this girl over facebook and we got talking and a week later meet up, and started to hang out.. Our chats slowly became more serious and things seemed to be going well to start a relationship.. She explained problems from her past and asked for time to take things slowly... Cool after 2 months of hanging out, going to partys films ect, but nothing else she rings me one night really drunk demanding you know what! I didnt go to her, the next day she explained she was joking with me.. fine let it go.. a week later the same agian, but every time i want to talk about emotion or relationship, she wont & says im too serious. But now she acts like i rejected her, but both times she wanted anything she was really drunk! Should i just get away quickly? Or am i missing some obvious point??
4 responses
• India
14 Mar 09
hey thats the same happened to me last year but my one was'nt joking infact she was really into that stuff so i decided to leave her and started out with someone else not female but male. i have become fond of him really.
@Ted3_uk (114)
16 Mar 09
Yes, girls can be a bit odd to figure out. bit drastic your experience turned you.... She must have been really big trouble for you! All the best
• Australia
11 Mar 09
She is so messed up, she needs some time
@Ted3_uk (114)
11 Mar 09
Yea man, thanks! Think we all do lol
@toling (20)
• China
11 Mar 09
Hmm... Is she a shy type? Maybe she could not express her desire for you when she is not drunk.
@Ted3_uk (114)
11 Mar 09
She is shy, but when she has not been drunk we have spoken. I think maybe she doesnt know what she wants, so i guess i cant know if thats the case
@jolope (988)
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
she is messed up.. but of course that's just my opinion.. i dont think the girl knows what she wants.. but if you do, if you want her..then i dont think that her being messed up is problem.. let her know and feel your intention..when she's not drunk.. :)
@Ted3_uk (114)
11 Mar 09
I did tell her and show her my feeling, but it just made her more distant.. until she wanted her fun again... She told me she liked me, but then does not show it at all. I think maybe she wantted to use me? and is selfish & i didnt fall into the trap?