Do guys forget completely what they have said overnight?

@mermaidivy (15417)
United States
March 11, 2009 8:02am CST
My dad yelled at me very unreasonably last week and sounded like I was the worst person ever, but he acted like nothing has happened yesterday when he talked to me. I think it seems very common because my friend has told me her boyfriends never raise up what she has said unless she told her. so what does that mean? Guys have short memory? Or they don't want to remember? I hope you can share your views with me :-)
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4 responses
• Australia
11 Mar 09
They are afraid to do so
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
11 Mar 09
maybe.
• Australia
12 Mar 09
hey yea, i don't means maybe. i am a guy so i know if i had a fight with someone else i won't go on my way to try to bring them up again, maybe theres guys like me, who wouldn't want to talk about something they don't really wanat to.
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
this is true. i have experienced it a lot. and im having a bit of trouble about it with my boyfriend. he usually forget the things we've talked about the other day. i don't know if he really intends to forget it, or what but he really forgets it. and i really get mad at times like that. it's so irritating, repeating everything you've talked over and over. and i really hate it. according to some research, our brain has the capacity to control our memory, it sometimes tends to forget the things we never wanted to remember again like bad things that has happened to us in the past. but not pretty sure about it. i think men are not just serious when they talk that's why they forget what they've already said. hmp. anyway, happy mylotting!
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
11 Mar 09
yeah, I hate that too...
@hanah87 (1846)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 09
I read the article that told men is never can give more attention when they listen because their brain have difficult area that cannot give attention.Maybe thats why they always forget what we say to them.
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
11 Mar 09
That could be why.
• Philippines
11 Mar 09
Some guys remember well what they have said or do except if they are drunk. Most guys don't remember dates like birthdays and anniversaries, it is a fact but I don't know why ;)
@mermaidivy (15417)
• United States
11 Mar 09
I don't know why either...