Tupperware Fund Raiser, Ugh!

@sassy28 (834)
United States
March 11, 2009 9:33am CST
Here we go again. My son is now in 4th grade and they have sold Tupperware since kindergarten. I have 2 trash bags of this stuff in my closet, you can only use so much. I have 2 kids in the school and each has to sell $150 to be able to go to an ice cream party, and if they sell $300 each they get to go to Pizza Hut in a limo. I had to tell them that this year there is no way we are doing it. I am not going and asking people to spend money that they do not have right now. I explained to them that I will buy a new DVD(one they both can agree on, ha), pizza, and stuff for ice cream sundaes. Figure cost about $50.00 for the night. A whole lot cheaper than $600. The only thing they will not get is the limo ride, I think they will survive. I am so tired of fund raisers. I bust butt to send them to a private school, I wish they would just add some money to the tuition and leave us alone through out the year.
7 responses
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
12 Mar 09
our school is in a poorer district/working class of town (but we have a great principal!) and we have fund raisers usually just before christmas. a couple of years it was cookie dough, the last two years, however, its been christmas cards, wrap and gifts. at least they are somewhat useful! doesnt your parent board have any other ideas besides tupperware? you are right, you can only use so much!
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
12 Mar 09
So far this year we have had several fund raisers. 1st magazines 2nd cookie dough, wrapping paper, candy, gifts 3rd Halloween carnival 4th colorful pasta 5th doughnuts 6th raised money for St Jude 7th tupperware I think we have done our share, thank goodness only 2 months of school left.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
13 Mar 09
wow, thats way too many! why not have a garage sale or a carnival just to mix it up a bit?
• United States
12 Mar 09
I think you did the right thing! I like that idea. Its something like what my parents did for me. They wouldn't always let me go door to door, especially after 9-11 (I'm 21 now and I'm going to be having my first child soon) so they said that they would do something special for me. And its something I remember better than the other things I 'won' on the fundraisers! My mom wouldnt let me do the fundraisers as a kid, she would, but only in my grandmothers neighborhood, where my pawpaw could sit on the front porch and keep an eye on me. But she wouldnt take me to other neighborhoods. And I lived, lol. I think this will be a fonder memory for them as they get older, especially when they start having their little ones, they'll look back and 'remember when'. I wish I'd be able to send my child(ren) to a private school, I HATED going to one as a kid, but I got a much better education there than I know I would have in the public school system!
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
12 Mar 09
I do most of the selling for their fund rasiers, or should I say normally most of the buying. I agree they are getting a much better education where they are at. My 9 year old only has 15 kids in his 4th grade class, and my 7 year old has 17 in his second grade class. I like that the classes and the school is small, everyone knows everyone and what is going on. Both boys are able to play football and basketball through the school, they keep them active. This year they convinced the county to have football teams at all the elementary schools where they can play each other, proud to say our school won every game.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
11 Mar 09
A Tupperware fundraiser? It sounds like the Home Interiors Candle fundraiser that my son's old school did. The head of the PTA that organized the fund raiser was the one selling the stuff. Gee I wonder why she picked that one. I bet someone who sells Tupperware was in charge of that fund raiser.
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
11 Mar 09
She is not in charge, but does have some connection. I suggested doing Avon a few years ago. Ladies on a fixed income can still spend $6 for lipstick. Not counting all the teenage girls at the school that would buy stuff.
@mammamuh (582)
• Sweden
11 Mar 09
Luckily we don't have there fund raisers here in Sweden! I think it's so unfair to those with a tight budget when stuff like this comes up! I've sold Tupperware for years and have more than I can use - the same for every one around me! I wouldn't sell the stuff!
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
11 Mar 09
It is unfair to the ones that do not have the extra cash to spend. Then the 5 year old child does not fully understand why his friend can go get pizza in a limo and he has to stay at school. I feel if they are rewarding it should be for everyone, not just the ones with richer parents than the others.
@KUSHANK55 (2437)
• India
11 Mar 09
it is another and modified way of squeezing the parents!! and they should be punished under child labour laws!!
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
11 Mar 09
You know it is not the kids doing the selling it is the parents stuck doing it. One more thing we have to deal with as parents. We just started baseball last night, one is in the minors and the other on coach pitch. That means running between to different places all week long. The joys of parenthood are just so great.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
11 Mar 09
I know exactly how you feel! My kids are constantly coming home with fund raising items, and it's usually candy bars! What? $1 for these candy bars when you can go to the grocery store and buy them for much less than that. And as you mentioned, people just don't have the money in this economy. I honestly think the schools should look elsewhere for raising money. I have already mentioned that there are boxtops from kellogg's and Campbell Soup Labels, and private citizens are more than welcome to donate if they wish. I know many schools are closing, but right now in this economy, families just don't have the extra income for these door to door fundraisers.
@sassy28 (834)
• United States
11 Mar 09
They do all of that. They just do not promote it. Then we also do the ink cartridges I think from staples. This past weekend they had a yard sale, and wanted everyone to donate all their used stuff. Not sure how that went. This fund raiser is for smart boards, a projector board that is hooked to a computer. Yes I agree this would be a great thing to have in the classroom, but with the economy so bad they need to wait.
@Raven7317 (691)
• United States
12 Mar 09
Hi Sassy, I'm with you on this one! My son just started school this year and we've already had to deal with about 10 fundraisers! This month they sent home TWO and both had to be back on the same day, one was Avon, and that went well... It bothers me because as a work from home family, we don't have offices to go to and plunk the catalogs down in the conference room so we have to rely on neighbors, friends, family... all of which have children of their own, also in school, also bringing home fundraisers! It's frustrating! I think it's unfair for the school to exclude children from trips. What if the family sold $299 ?? Would the child be left behind because they didn't sell $300??? That's mean and inappropriate. Perhaps calling the school and speaking to the principal would lead to other alternative? Suggesting a reduced cost to include all children on the trip? Say, $10/15 cash to the school to offset the cost of extra children on the trip?