Marriage kills love?

killing love - Marriage kills love
@zouna5 (564)
Greece
March 11, 2009 2:00pm CST
What do you believe about the common phrase "Marriage kills love,passion"?
6 responses
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
Hmmm, I really can't attest to that statement since I never really did love my ex-husband even before we got married (it was a forced marriage anyways). But well, for old couples, that seems to be not true, I've seen my aunts and uncles still happy together and yes my parents are still together. But with the younger generation, getting married seems to be liken to getting imprisoned . Once they're in, they find a way to get out, hahaha! Maybe it does kill the passion, but well, it depends on the people involved and the relationship as a whole
@lilcee (2703)
• United States
11 Mar 09
Hi zouna5. Welcome to mylot. I don't believe that statement at all. I've been married for 39 years to a wonderful man and my best friend and soulmate. We're very happy and very much in love. Have a happy lotting day.
@zouna5 (564)
• Greece
11 Mar 09
I believe that too!I wish you more 39 years of happiness...
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
17 Mar 09
I cannot imagine that marriage kills love or passion, i think it is people stop showing their love the way they did while dating. There is a pattern and what not formed while dating and some people just stop it when they get married, it's like they got their love so they stop.
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
9 Jul 09
Would marriage being the end of passinate love? or marriage is another man's grave? Would you believe these phrase? What really determine a real love? Would love been ceased between two persons if they simply got married, and living their lives together? Don't fall for those general fallacy. If you still love that person, you will love him/her no matter what situation you are standing at.
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
I do not think that when your marriage ,love does not exist anymore or just die,its up to you how to work it out,right?
• Canada
25 Apr 09
I dont beleive this saying at all.....a marriage takes a lot of hard work and effort on both parts. as soon as one person gives up then it will not work. Love and passion are the hardest things to keep alive and strong but it is not impossible.