She don't love me, what do i do???
March 12, 2009 12:09am CST
Hi everyone, i am a new member of mylot and also a college students,i have a problem make me lost, i love a girl who is my classmate when i am a senior student , but i don't make her konw that i love her,so she put me as a general student, now i am in the college and miss her very much so i often called her,but she din't understand why i often call her %_
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15 Mar 09
I am confused for the moment....are you a guy or a girl?? Your photo says you are a girl? If yes, then it's a homosexual relationship. First let me know, what's your gender exactly then I shall advise you in this situation. Cheers friend
12 Mar 09
Well,it happens in everybodies life.Rejection hurts more in love.Try to propose to her for a second time.If she still denies you,then shrug your shoulders for bad luck and concentrate on your college studies.You will meet the right girl in your life soon again.Until then,focus on your career.Good luck!
12 Mar 09
hi there. Nathalie here, first of all welcome to mylot. Well I think the girl maybe was not prepared to hear what you said to her. You can make friends with her first and then slowly try to establish deep friendship and then maybe if she is meant for you then she will love you In return. But if she doesn't try to accept the reality that you two can only be friends and not more than that. There is someone destined to be yours just wait. Patience is a virtue. Happy mylotting. Goodluck.
14 Mar 09
leeevonne, First of all, I think you will need to realize that the both of you are still studying and I do not think relationship is not hers and your priority. I suppose the fact that girls mature faster than boys do tell a lot here. I think it would be wise to set personal feelings aside and complete each other complete your academic pursuits. Dwelling on negativity and attempting to find the actual reasons for her decisions would not be wise at least not for now. One must fully understand that relationship is indeed forged by freewill. Nobody is coerced to love another person; we love incidentally and later made the choice to further this love into a relationship. Therefore, you got to weigh your own risk to see if you are still willing to pool the resources to make this investment worthwhile and likewise for the other party as well. It is and has to be mutual. Hardwork never equate to success in love - you merely learn to adapt according to what your experience and knowledge would require and introspect regularly. Never set yourself on the degenerating path no matter what your encounters are - it's sad to know of people who saw the beauty of trust, only to destroy and blind this perception they once to bad circumstances like failure and unrequited love. So continue to keep good perspective and definition of love, but work hard at keeping the flame alive within you. Relationship is always a major consideration and a full time commitment where it will require your all, so if you are just planning to try-try-see-how, then I'd say don't bother and concentrate on what you have to do first and do it well! Take care and have a nice weekend.