A question for the men out there...

@Pleiades (847)
United States
March 13, 2009 12:59pm CST
What do you look for in a woman? Do you look for appearances more than what she can offer you? Do you look to see how many children she already has? What about her family and friends? *Pleiades
6 responses
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
1 Apr 09
Hmm, good question(s)! I've always want to answer the questions you asked. Well, appearance matters at first i must admit but it won't matter soon as i get to know her better. Which means it's a mixture of appearance and substance. For as long as she takes care of herself and presentable to the people around, then i'm fine with it. As for kids, it doesn't matter how many but as much as possible, i want to know the lady and the kids while they are still young. I may have problems with grown ups about not liking me for you. When they're still small then maybe they may like me for an uncle who's in love with their mother. As for the family, i don't care if you have an ex-convict for a brother. It's not like he's going to punch or bully me around right? I'm definitely fine with it. I'm too shy with the friends. You know, like i have a feeling that their impressions about me are bad and that i don't deserve you or something. Friends can influence your choice about me.
@Pleiades (847)
• United States
1 Apr 09
Wow...you've...uummm...covered all the bases on this discussion. Bravo and I'll give you the #2 award. *Pleiades
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
2 Apr 09
Haha! Well technically you can't but it's ok. It's my pleasure to respond. At least in your heart i know i'm #2.
@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
30 Mar 09
a woman who likes to meet people,,think quick,, talk and listen,,cook fresh meals,enjoy outdoors,,little bit of everything,,Not with one or two interests ,,appearance is not verrry Important,but a smiling face is,, kawal said soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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@Pleiades (847)
• United States
30 Mar 09
I suppose that's why I adore a certain friend of mine...he's always smiling and laughing. *Pleiades
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
14 Mar 09
Hi, To me a Woman is the symbol of 'Motherhood'. I look at her maturity,sense of humour,egotail,education/wisdom,company she keeps. Lastly,comes her appearance. =Lahiri,Kolkata,india.
• India
30 Mar 09
thanks!
@dhaumya (107)
• India
14 Mar 09
Looks are very important, but I look for the intellectual level as well, if I have to have a long term relationship.
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@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
30 Mar 09
so I believe u can also smile and laugh all the time,,if u can do that ,, u will be welcomed by anybody,, I smile with everyone,, even if i am not in a good mood,, kawalnarang@yahoo.com ,, do u like to travel and meet new people?
@Pleiades (847)
• United States
30 Mar 09
I'd love to travel but I don't have the money for it. I'd also love to meet new people but I'm too shy and plus, my schedule's always full. *Pleiades
• India
13 Apr 09
I do look in for woman's character and her way of approaching things. I also look into woman's appearance up to some extent.