We are not match.

United States
March 15, 2009 10:15pm CST
Today, I had a conversation with the person I love. He said that we don't match, in hobbies, in our opinion toward things. It broke my heart, and disappointed me so much. I don't think that I would answer to her call ever again.
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@borgborg (821)
• Philippines
16 Mar 09
Why did she say that? Is she in a way saying that you can't be together because you guys don't fit and mesh well together? I think having different likes won't stop you from dating a person. Sure it has its difficulties but then in the end, you will learn a lot from each other!
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@larish (2196)
• Philippines
12 May 09
Why not look for someone who would give your love in return? Though, I must confess that me and my hubby are very opposite when it comes to our interest but with this differences, we basically complement each other.
@randiss (149)
24 Mar 09
i don't think it matters if you have the same hobbies or not. sometimes, it's better not to have everything the same. that's often dull. learn from each other through your own differences, that will keep things interesting. however, since your heart has already been broken, find a way to unbreak it now. let that person know that it was a mistake to let you go. =)
• Malaysia
24 Mar 09
wow..that's quite insensitive. i can imagine how heartbroken you might have been when the person you loved told you all that. don't worry..it's her loss. i'm sure there's someone out there who will love you and treat you much better. take care!
• Canada
22 Mar 09
When you don't match with someone that doesn't' mean your relationship doesn't work. My fiance is my soulmate. My other half he brings things to the relationship that I can't a vise versa. We are FAR from haing the same hobbies and opinions. We are individuals and a unit as such to have the same ideals, hobbies and opinions will make a bland relationship with not much to go off of. YOu need to have someone saying 'no' everyone in a while and giving what they think from a different perspective. If we all matched we'd be boring people in love with ourselves. Now if she meant that you dont' match as in she doesn't love you then that's different. That no one can help and believe it or not it's no one's fault. I'd consider yourself lucky at least she came to you and told you her feelings then continuing to waste both of your time and living a lie. I'm sorry this happened. But in this life everything happens for a reason. Your Mrs. right is out there some where and your ex is a stepping stone to 'the one'. It will not be easy and you will hurt. That's the pains of love but I promise you one day you will heal.
• United States
16 Mar 09
Sometimes opposites attract. I don't have the same hobbies as the people I love but we get along beautifully. If you love each other it won't matter. Does this person love you?
@frncsmts (84)
• Philippines
16 Mar 09
That's the best thing to do...When she told you that thing,that means that she don't love you....Hope it can help....