Do you think it's ok to get married after a year or two?

United States
March 15, 2009 11:06pm CST
Do you think it's ok to get married after a year or two of being together? After living together also? I need some opinions! please
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@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
16 Mar 09
I feel you are right. Some are there who spend 5 to 10 years to go to marriage but that is a long period to remain together not legally recognized. Besides how old you are also comes to stay. If you are on the verge of your youth it is strongly suggested that you go and get married soon. Wish you all the best.
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• United States
16 Mar 09
Thanks I agree , I dont want to be 50 when I get married, I want to still have some spark in me
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@lynnemg (4539)
• United States
16 Mar 09
I think it is oky. I married my husband after being together only 15 months. We began living together right after we started dating. I think that after a year, a personpretty well knows the other person and their habits, especially after living together. Sometimes, you just know it is right, and if that is the case, go for it.
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@spalladino (17924)
• United States
16 Mar 09
My personal opinion is that a year or two is plenty of time to get to know each other so why not get married if you want to? Especially if you're already living together so you've already figured out if you can stand each other's little quirks and annoying habits.
• United States
16 Mar 09
That's for sure, most people ive asked said that its too little time, but i agree with you!
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@Oscarchen (123)
• China
16 Mar 09
I think a year or two of being together has already been a long time to learn about each other. So I think it's ok to get married.
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@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
16 Mar 09
I just don't believe in long engagement, especially when it's been years your together. You already know each other to well, even your bad side and good side, I just don't know why what is still lacking not yet getting married yet. If it's really meant for you, why not get married. That is why their are a lot of couple of how many years being together they still separate, and not married yet. Don't you think it's kind a unfair for both parties. For me yes it's not easy to work out relationship, the adjustment of not being alone anymore, or something will just happened after how many years being together the wasted hopes, and expectations. 2years it's already long enough not getting married yet. Have a nice day to you!
• India
16 Mar 09
i feel its fine to get married after a year or so after living with the person.i feel u actually come to know about the nature of a person only after living with the person.---but one should know there limits in relationships.
@bamrahkirti (1819)
• India
16 Mar 09
I got married to my husband only after 2.5 months of our courtship(Ours was an arranged marriage) and you can imagine very well that it is not a sufficient period to get to know each other. I would like to say that men are full of mysteries and it has been 2 years since our marriage but each day i am still exploring something new and exciting about him. I feel it is not the matter of time but what really matters that how well you gel with each other. One life to know a person is not sufficient,trust me.