My Daughter turns 18

United States
March 16, 2009 7:45am CST
It was 6 years ago that my wife brainwashed by the church (our local organization to promote false beliefs) decided to rattle my cage. They couldn't teach my wife to say something nice, maybe it was a combination of friends and family the perfect storm developed on three fronts. What a fine day to attack a husband. You don't have to greet each other in the morning with a nice word, especially on a day when your daughter turns another year older. It was the final straw for me, I'd just been put through so much and the abuse was more than I could bare to take. Subtle abuse, they call it passive aggressive, where do people learn such skills, why does it give them such thrills? They have turned the tables and said that telling the truth is a form of this passive abuse. Hence the list of rules to follow if I'm to go visit my Grandmother. As a result of not being able to visit with my Grandmother and being required written proof from a judge to do so, my wife also employed this technique to require me to get an order from a judge the very next day if I'm going to be permitted to visit with my children. I can not go and wish my children a Happy Thanksgiving and have not seen my children since as a result of being an advocate for my Grandmother. I'm not Happy... The Judge said on Friday no one is trying to keep you from seeing your Grandmother. The judge isn't listening to the testimony of November 25th about the disputed over visiting hours and why that was so important nor what is requested in the petitions that he granted where Rosie gets to determine who can visit my Grandmother and deem visits based on the health of my Grandmother. My Children end up suffering, because the Church stands by idle caught in their sins, the leaders that protect all of the lies, like the one's found in the most favored verse John 3:16 For GOD so loved the world, that who sent their only begotten child as a ransom for all sin??? I've exposed this flawed thinking so many times... On one hand if we the good people are all children of GOD then this verse is flawed if GOD made everything then this verse is flawed. Worse yet if Jesus never existed then this verse is flawed. Most importantly as we draw the spirit of Jesus into our hearts that makes each one of us a child of GOD this verse is flawed. The work of GOD is to bring as many people to repentance to the knowledge of good and evil and to choose good instead of evil being able to make the right choices. Instead of kicking your spouse out of bed give them a special gift in order to rise in good spirits. Instead of always being at odds tell the truth and own your actions that cause destruction. Above all tell the truth. For GOD so loved the world that all of the people have the freedom to choose this day to be a child of GOD. We can all choose to Love instead of telling lies and abusing others in truth and for the truth. A world of liars produces a sinful world and all of the world will soon become full of sin.
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
Hi Gary! I do believe that as long as God is on your side, there is nothing to fear! The truth and the good will always win in the end! No matter how many hurdles these people are giving you, God will never abandon you for you have always been faithful to His Words and not twist them just like what they are doing. Just be strong and keep up the faith! Take care and blessings to you! lovelots...faith
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• United States
18 Mar 09
Thanks Faith, I hold fast to the truth...
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• United States
20 Mar 09
Thanks Faith I have some good news to share I'll begin tomorrow...
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
..and will always pray for you dear friend! lovelots..faith
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
16 Mar 09
As a Christian person, I hate to hear these kinds of stories. This type of indoctrination (brainwashing, as you call it, and an apt description) is exactly why so many people turn against Christianity. We get caught up in the traditions of man that have absolutely nothing to do with what God expects from us. Christianity is a lifestyle, a personal relationship with our Creator, not a religion, and our purpose here is to love and care another, inspire one another, and help those who have fallen, and any church that teaches otherwise does not deserve to exist, and certainly isn't blessed!
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
16 Mar 09
**"love and care for one another"
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• United States
16 Mar 09
Thank You, You are very wise... Organizations that allow abuse are built on false foundations and so many governments are built in the same image that they can not see the truth of the pain they cause to others. You are right in what you write as am I...
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• United States
16 Mar 09
I wonder if she knows how much I want her to have a Happy Birthday? I wonder if she understands how her parents were abused and manipulated? I am sitting on so much information and it seems that very few people care about the proof of the truth, certainly not those in the positions of authority.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
16 Mar 09
I have always heard That the Truth shall set you free. Lets hope it wiill in timne and the judge opens ears!
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
17 Mar 09
YEs and its all so sad. that hands right now seemed to be tied
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• United States
16 Mar 09
The ears to the Judge are generally closed we have a bureaucracy a separate agency to be the ears for the Judge. This agency is not easy to contact let alone communicate with and it is their ears that have to hear the complaints. The system is closed down and poor victims remain abandoned and abused because of a fractured system that is built upon false beliefs where many people are excluded and not protected. As a result families are divided and love is not showered upon ones who also become the victims of this abuse. Thanks from, Frustrated in PA, Gary
16 Mar 09
Hi Gary, I don;t belive in these religious nuts who don't practice what the preach, God alone knows who is in the wrong but he don't condem anyone, but I do belive in karma and they will get it, you mark my word, don't do anything to firer at you stary well away. Tamara
• United States
18 Mar 09
So much to do and I'm getting through the worst of it... Waiting is the hardest part.