they think they can say or do whatever to anyone know anyone like this ?
By syankee525
@syankee525 (6261)
United States
March 16, 2009 8:04am CST
i do know people like this, they think they can do or say whatever they want to anyone, but they think no one should get upset with them at all.
my nephew is one, he think he can sit there and call people names whenever he wants and be hatful to people as well. when he does it with me i dont put up with it at all.
but i often hear from family member specaily grandma, he got issues, and he's handicap with cp. ok he does he cp he 21 but more like a 16 yrs old. but he know the different between right and wrong.
i don't put up with this from anyone and i dont care who they or what is wrong with them, i deman respect and if they dont then hell with them
but i often like to changlle them to an insult war, i win 99% of the time,
7 responses
@TLChimes (4822)
• United States
16 Mar 09
I don't have the time or energy for that garbage. Respect is a must in my family. You don't have to like so and so but you MUST treat them with respect.
What would really bother me about your nephew is that after being rude, he then turns around and asks for favors and wants people to play nice with him.
*shakes head* Kids these days.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
16 Mar 09
yeah he dont have trouble asking me for favors i stopped once before doing favors for him, and told my in laws why real fast. my father in law agree with me. but my mother in law say people treats him so mean. i told her maybe its because how he talks to people.
but yeah i am with you no matter what family is family we all need to get along for the family sake and do what we need to do to keep respect and peace.
but i am sure he'll call me again and say sorry like he did the first time, like he said i will need you. i told him but you are saying sorry for the wrong reason, not because you were wrong but you need me to do something
but here to the stuipd and rude people
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
17 Mar 09
some said that age 21 needs guidance because the just reach the stage like adult.only the age are adult but the mind stay 16 ysr old but it will be change if he will have a seriuos realatonship
@suzzy3 (8342)
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16 Mar 09
My friends son has autism but he manages to be polite most of the time,but he does have terrible tempers which are awful he cannot help it.I am not sure what cp is but sometimes people just cannot help it,and we have to accept this,sometimes my friends boy is really rude to me other times he is so sweet,i am sorry to say maybe you should be a little more understanding,we all like respect and quite rightly so,maybe we could try to be a bit respectful of others as well especially if they cannot help it and laugh it off,as they don't know what they are saying anyway.We should just be grateful we are not lumbered with something as awful as that.Best wishes.xx
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
16 Mar 09
It's sad really. I seem to see just as much of in adults as well, and lately quite a bit here on Mylot. I truly agree that respect must be common place and we must show compassion to all people, even if we don't agree with them. It's sad that we've become a society with so little of it.
I think that the best thing to do is continue to be the good example for others, including our children and family members (relatives). We need to show them how to be caring compassionate people in all situations and hopefully they will begin to emulate that.
Namaste-Anora
@VINODCHANDRAN88 (22)
• India
17 Mar 09
am a same kind of person but not much harmful.....i like to tease others but only in a way tat they enjoy
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
16 Mar 09
Hello,Syankee! There are some people who get pleasure by behaving rudely to others,may be family members or friends.But this type of behavior is considered something abnormal with him.He might be having some problem in his mind.So such people should be treated with much care and tenderness so that he will realise his fault and change his attitude and behavior.thanx.
