chatting with your exes?

Philippines
March 16, 2009 9:19am CST
last 2 months ago i've got a chance to chat with my ex. from then on we exchanged some ideas again. knowing his married life turned miserable & he's now hurting a lot, i gave him words of inspiration & encouragement to move on. 3 weeks later my 1st love or better say my "puppy love" invited me in friendster. we too starts chatting on. it's really a great feeling to become friends again with them. we're happy reminiscing things that made us happy before. and we're proud that we can talk things out what we haven't done before. everything is cleared to all of us about our present situation. i'm happilly married with 3 kids. but when my husband heared about this things he got mad with me & asked me to stop communicating with them. since he's working abroad, chatting with old friends became a part of my hobby. can anybody tell me what to do?
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4 responses
• Singapore
16 Mar 09
Lemme ask you a question, if for some reason your husband revealed he is still communicating with his exs, how would you feel? If you didn't feel any discomfort upon knowing that, then it's either you have an open mind, or you just don't love your husband well enough. Your husband reacting the way he did means he is jealous or uncomfortable with the whole situation. Since he is away, he would want to feel secure that you are still his woman, and he is still your man, and nothing in between. It's kinda complicated but it's a guy thing, trust me I know.
• Philippines
16 Mar 09
well. i guess your right. since past had passed i must concentrate with my hubby. thanks for enlightening my mind.
• Singapore
18 Mar 09
You're welcome .
@icecroft (449)
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
I don't see anything wrong with chatting with your exes, just as long as your sure that it's just completely friendly. As for your hubby, try to explain this to him. If he still insists on you that you need to stop communicating with your exes, then it's probably better if you just do. We absolutely don't want that to cause a rift between the two of you, right?
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
yah thats what on my mind too. but i can't explain to him. since he is away, i just did what he wants. thanks.
• China
16 Mar 09
ln my opinion, a person's life, marriage and family are very important, but it should not have no friends, At contacts with friends, just remember that you love your husband,you know how to do
• Philippines
16 Mar 09
yes, i love him & i dont want to hurt him again. i'll do what he wants. thank you.
@erty711 (33)
• Canada
16 Mar 09
do what you think you should do but acording to your story you are happy talking to them as friends with is perfect. as long as they dont try to rip you away from the other things that mater in life.
• Philippines
16 Mar 09
okay, thanks for that.