has a friend ever used you?

United States
November 10, 2006 12:50pm CST
has a friend ever used you?
17 responses
@hcprasad (1013)
• India
13 Nov 06
My friends have used me for their earnings and work. But I need a friend who will use me for what I am interested.
@ausnikki (4055)
• Brisbane, Australia
13 Nov 06
Yes,a friend (ex friend now) did use me.She needed somewhere to stay and I let her move in with me and my two kids to help her out.I am a single mum.Not only did she not pay the board we agreed on to help cover expenses,she stole money off me.She left me with huge bills, which almost ended up with me having my power,gas and phone disconnected.I will not be so eager to help a friend like that again!
• India
13 Nov 06
if you are ever used by a friend then he / she was never your fren. he is ur biggest enemy
@Lovely_Lady (1524)
• United States
13 Nov 06
Oh yeah definitely... but I would tell them it's not right and tell them, they have lost a good friend.
• Australia
13 Nov 06
i think alot of people use each other every day.
@neeraj07 (577)
• India
13 Nov 06
yes, they have.
@baysmummy (1638)
• Australia
13 Nov 06
Yes i have been used a couple of my "So called friends"
@swarn47 (1706)
• India
13 Nov 06
Yes, it is real truth of the society that everyone finds oneself being used by the other. I dont see any harm in it. After all this is the way life is. I feel the word using should be replaced with helping. That will be better. The friends or the society may not be using one another but helping one another.
• Malaysia
10 Nov 06
nope yeah ~~ but this is imported~
@magikrose (5423)
• United States
10 Nov 06
I have a friend who uses me for rides arround town. Now we live in a very small town and he van very easily walk or ride his bike but he chooses to bother me when Iam getting ready to go get my kids. He figures since I am going that way that he can get lazy and hitch a ride. Before we met he would walk everywhere and ride his bike too and now he is getting lazy.
@Solja420 (2507)
• United States
10 Nov 06
nope...i dont think so
@suzieque (2336)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
Yes I had a couple of friends and boyfriends that have used me. BUt it hurts to talk about it.
@Heloise (73)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
I feel I have been used in a lot of ways. I am a very sensitive person and I want people to have confidence in me, I want to act really as a friend... I started to feel bad about some of my friendships when I got sick and nobody would understand. I was left alone by almost everybody because I was ''boring''. However, I have never judged those friends when they had problems
• India
10 Nov 06
frndzzz - hmmm
nopp....nt at all...y u askin...its hv been wid u kyaa
@Undefeated (4792)
• Singapore
10 Nov 06
never i think.
• Hong Kong
10 Nov 06
Yes,and I don't mind.because if he or she has done so,I would double the damage.
@britishyip (1614)
• India
10 Nov 06
not exactly.. but friend are for sharing your happines, sadness, tensions, love, fun so whats wrong if someone used you in friendship?