what is the hardest word/s to say??

@lockheart (1406)
Philippines
March 17, 2009 9:58am CST
well, from the song itself.. for me, sorry is the hardest word to say. especially, when you are not the one who commits mistake but in the sake of peace and everything you will do it. and sometimes when you say sorry there will be a feeling that you eaten up your whole pride and its very difficult for you to accept. so what's the hardest word/s to say for you??
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@modstar (9612)
• Philippines
19 Mar 09
I really don't have problems saying "sorry" even if i'm not supposed to be saying it. I just want things get over fast. I guess the most difficult words for me to say is "i love you". I don't know but lately, there's female friend here in Manila is aiming to increase the level of our friendship. I think she wants something more. She would call me everynight then she's beginning to sound demanding like she would make a tone of a girlfriend who's sad just because i don't want to say "i miss you". How can i miss someone who's been calling me everynight? I told her that she's beginning to sound possessive but she has no idea that she's turning me off. She think she's being cute but she's not. I may have slipped in a few "i miss yous" against my will but i will never say "i love you".
@lockheart (1406)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
ohh.. thats hot.. lol... these days girls becomes more aggressive than guys.. lol.. is she beautiful inside and out??? lol.. how come that you cant say to her that you dont feel anything special about her.. at least if you will say to her then maybe she will stop making "pacute" stuffs to you more earlier.. lol..
@modstar (9612)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
I'm pretty contrasting with regards to this idea. I don't want to say i love but at the same time, i don't want to discourage/disappoint. I guess that leaves her in a state of limbo. I met another friend awhile ago. She's you can say "hot". She's 5'5 plus 3" heels. It made me feel i'm Tom Cruise with Nicole Kidman. There's a problem though, she's 20 but she acts 30. I couldn't catch up with her maturity.
@lockheart (1406)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
I thought guys love matured thinking ladies?
@ahgong (10066)
• Singapore
19 Mar 09
Well, it ain't that hard a word to say if you want to maintain peace with the person you love. It is when the person who wronged you is not someone you love, and you have to maintain the peace that makes the word hard to say. Especially if you are wronged due to his or her mistakes. Those are the hardest situations to swallow. And you have to apologize to them due to diplomacy. And what makes you really want to smack them is when they give you that proud look to show you that they won the argument cos you apologized!
@lockheart (1406)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
yeah, your last statement is true.. the heck with them. if i am engage with an argument and i just think that there's no way that this conversation would ever stop, i just give them silence. and whatever things they want to think its up to them. i just want peace after all. lol.
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@ahgong (10066)
• Singapore
23 Mar 09
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
17 Mar 09
Hi, According to me-"No". It is the hardest word to say! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@lockheart (1406)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
No? Why? it means you cant say no if you really dont want to engage on something?
• India
22 Mar 09
Start saying NO & realise. 'No' to Ur parents/hubby/children/neighbour/brother-sister/peer/boss's REQUESTs. Then Pl respond.
@nchap36 (556)
• United States
22 Mar 09
My hardest word is not sorry, but it is one of them. I believe the hardest word for me is "I love you" I really don't know why those words are hard, but they are. My family member tell me all the time "love you". The words that come out out my mouth is "ok". It's just something hard to say, because I do love them. I just need to work on saying those words.
@lockheart (1406)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
now, i'll add up the words "i love you" as one of the hardest word to say. Seems like everybody is having trouble on saying i love you just like me.. Now, i wonder what's wrong with me..lol.
@buggles64 (2715)
• United States
17 Mar 09
I agree with you.."sorry" is the hardest words to say. It really doesn't matter if a person is "right" or "wrong" what really matters is the friendship be kept intack. I am "sorry" that we are going through this difficult situation...or "I am sorry" that we are not seeing "eye" to "eye" on this particular matter. It's one of those times that you have to agree to disagree for the sake of saving the friendship. If I had a friend and he/she would talk to me, I would say that I am sorry, because I don't want anything to ruin or destroy our friendship. Another hard thing for me to say is "I love you!" because usually we want to hear those words repeated to us, and especially when you say "I love you" for the first time. You're nervous, and anxious...maybe the other person doesn't have those kinds of feelings for you...so those are definitely the two hardest things for me to say.
@lockheart (1406)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
i absoultely agree to what have you said. i think sorry is the key for any different things in life when you want peace within yourself. sometimes people who cant say sorry more easier are also those people who merely forgive someone if they do some mistakes. thanks for your response.
• India
17 Mar 09
Hey,i know sorry feels too difficult to say sometimes but i think to say i love you from the depth of my heart is the most difficult word to say.Dont ask me why coz i just dont know why but it seems too difficult for me.
@lockheart (1406)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
oh yeah, me too. i have difficulties in saying i love you to my family and friends and i dont know if i can say i love you to someone whom i meant to be loved to. i think this is for the persons who are not so expressive in what they feel.
• United States
17 Mar 09
I think the hardest words for me to day is sorry or I was wrong. Somtimes I know when people like eachother it is hard for them to say I like you or stuff like that. Sometimes people have a hard time showing emations as well. I think it depends on the person. For me it is my pride when I have done something wrong to someone. It is hard to admit and make ammends but it is important to do so.
@lockheart (1406)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
yeah, you are right, and i am included to those persons who have that very large ego within themselves that makes a barrier for them to say sorry in most easiest way. thanks for your response.
@maezee (31497)
• United States
17 Mar 09
"Conscientious" has always been a really hard word for me to spell/say (physically, that is. lol). But I agree, with you, saying "sorry" (especially when you don't want to) is hard - especially when you have a big ego & don't want to admit that you were wrong.
@lockheart (1406)
• Philippines
22 Mar 09
lol. thanks for agreeing with what i said.. happy mylotting.