Will you date someone who already has kids...

@davido (1624)
Canada
March 19, 2009 9:49pm CST
Hello, would you date someone who (lady) who already has three 3- kids from an earlier relationship? your own views please...
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@cyberfluf (5005)
• Netherlands
23 Mar 09
I would date a person with kids if I was sure that something nice could come of it. Basicly, I would only date people if I think it has a future. Why would you let someone pass just because they have kids if you can really hit it off together? Perhaps because you don't want children in the first place or really can't get along with the kids, but otherwise I don't see a reason.
@davido (1624)
• Canada
25 Mar 09
yeah...thats a good reason but it should not be hidden...
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@cyberfluf (5005)
• Netherlands
25 Mar 09
That's true, I didn't see that in your initial post. Nothing should be hidden in a relationship in my point of view as trust is the solid foundation you need to build your relationship on. Not telling important things like having kids will ruin your 'foundation' and will cause your relationship to become instable. So I do agree you have a valid point there.
@jshekhar (1563)
• India
20 Mar 09
Hi davido! If I really like a lady I would not mind dating her, even if she has three kids. As is the old saying, "love knows no bounds" and the same thing applies here. Although, I don't know whether I'll ever be able to convince myself into "liking" such a lady... lol
@davido (1624)
• Canada
23 Mar 09
That cool...provided she tells you that she does! as most of this ladies may not even mention it until they are now deep into it, then they have 'something important they want to share with you love and i hope you'll understand'....maybe tearfully sometimes as the case may be...thanks
@daliaj (5689)
• India
20 Mar 09
I don't know why people date ladies who already have kids. I also don't understand the people who are open to accept step chldren as their own children. They are great people. Honestly, I don't have such an open mind. I can't accept it might be because I am traditional Indian.
@davido (1624)
• Canada
23 Mar 09
well when we fall someone may help us up not and you may help someone up too not minding where you come from as in the tribe or religion...or else...
@amrith (291)
• India
20 Mar 09
This is only momentary feeling and don't take it seriously it will spoil your life and also the three small children's life.We are human beings and we should behave like that. so in my opinion you can easily come out of that temptation easily
@davido (1624)
• Canada
23 Mar 09
Temptation....yes its temptation by using what they have to get what they want!!! thanks